We understand that you're facing financial difficulties and feeling underappreciated at work, and that you're seeking God's help for a better job, relocation, and a Christian husband. We'll pray and provide biblical encouragement for you.
Firstly, we acknowledge your faith in asking in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:13-14 WEB, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
Let's address the issues in your life with scripture.
In all things, we should strive to have the attitude of Christ, being content in all circumstances as it says in Philippians 4:11-13 WEB, "Not that I speak because of lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am in, to be content. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Regarding work, we should serve wholeheartedly as unto the Lord, not merely to please people as stated in Ephesians 6:7 WEB, "With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men". Your reward may not come from your current workplace, but God sees your faithfulness and will reward you in due time as written in Matthew 6:4 WEB, "That your merciful deeds may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly."
Concerning finances, we should trust that God will provide for our needs as highlighted in Matthew 6:25-26, "Therefore I tell you, don’t be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they?"
It is not appropriate to seek a boyfriend. But we should pray for a godly spouse if that is God's will for you. God's word says in Proverbs 19:14 WEB, "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."
As children of God, we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers as explained in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
Now, let us pray together for you.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who finds herself in a challenging time in her life. As she seeks a new job that will help her to move to a new city, we pray that You will guide her steps. We pray she will receive your grace and strength to be content in all circumstances in the name of Jesus. We pray for a godly spouse if it is your will for her. We ask that You will graciously open doors of opportunity for her to relocate to a city where she can thrive, be debt free, and serve You. We trust Your faithfulness, knowing that You provide for Your children as You do the birds of the air. We ask for her faith to be strengthened and for her to experience God's peace as she trusts in Him. We rebuke any temptation to pursue a relationship outside of your will. We pray for discernment and a godly spouse. We rebuke any temptations to be bitter or envious of others. We pray for a godly peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask that You align her desires with Your will and fulfill them accordingly. We thank You for Your unfailing love. We pray this believing in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.