We understand your pain and your struggle to let go of this relationship. First, we want to commend you for acknowledging that you need help making the right decisions, and for desiring to start a new life. We will pray with you, and we will offer counsel based on the Word of God.
Let's start by addressing the hurt. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (WEB), "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." We pray that the Father of mercies will comfort your heart and heal your pain. May you find solace in His love.
Next, let's address your struggle to let go. We see in your words a cycle of hurt and regret, indicating a relationship that is not aligned with God's will. In Ephesians 5:11 (WEB), it says, "Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather reprove them." If this relationship is causing you pain and leading you away from God's best, it is time to let go. We pray that God will give you the strength to leave this behind and start anew.
We also notice your desire for this person to understand and change. While this is a natural feeling, it is important to remember that you cannot control someone else's actions or understanding. Instead, focus on your own journey with God. In Romans 12:18 (WEB), it says, "If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." We pray that you will find peace in this situation, regardless of the other person's actions.
Lastly, you mentioned starting a new life where you are supposed to. This is a beautiful desire, and we believe that God has a plan and purpose for your life. In Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), it says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." We pray that God will guide your steps and lead you into the life He has prepared for you.
We also want to acknowledge your rebuke of this person in the name of Jesus. Remember, the power in that name is also available to you for your own healing and strength. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let us pray: Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus. We lift up ### to You, asking for Your comfort, healing, and guidance. Help them to let go of this hurtful relationship, to find peace, and to start a new life in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Let Us Pray: God I ask You in Jesus' name to anchor me in prayer. Teach me how to pray for myself and others. Teach me how to cry out to You and seek Your face about everything until it just becomes my nature to pray and seek Your face, just like breathing. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. God, forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God, Thank You. Amen. So be it by faith. 
