Do you want the Christmas answer?
Or the real life answer? The Christian sibling answer?
I know whatβs wrong. You shouldnβt be sleeping with your fiancΓ©. If heβs abusing you verbally you should breakup. The Bible says:
If your eye causes you to sin, tear it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell
And these verses say the same thing:
2 Corinthians 6:14 ESV / 51 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.
Do not be deceived: βBad company ruins good morals.β
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? What agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; as God said, βI will make my dwelling among them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Therefore go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.β
If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.
You shall not plow with an ox and a donkey together.
Not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world.
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: βIt is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.β But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
You shall not intermarry with them, giving your daughters to their sons or taking their daughters for your sons, for they would turn away your sons from following me, to serve other gods. Then the anger of the Lord would be kindled against you, and he would destroy you quickly.
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, βThe two will become one flesh.β
I may sound mean, but I donβt care. I want to help you!!!
The Christmas answer is:
OH EVERYTHING IS FINE I WILL JUST ACT AS IF NOTHING IS WRONG!!!
Iβm sorry!