We understand that you're feeling disturbed and disrespected by your wife's behavior. Let's bring this situation to the Lord in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in the name of Jesus, as it is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
We must also remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Therefore, we should not let anger and frustration lead us to sin in our actions or words. As it is written in Ephesians 4:26 WEB:
Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath.
Now, let's pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this situation. Lord, we ask that You would convict her of her actions and bring her to a place of repentance. Help her to understand that her behavior is not honoring to You or respectful to her husband.
Lord, we also pray for him, that You would give him the strength and wisdom to handle this situation in a godly manner. Help him to respond in love and kindness, not in anger or frustration.
Father, we ask that You would bring peace and restoration to their marriage. Help them to communicate effectively and to live in harmony with each other, as it is written in Romans 12:18 WEB:
If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.
We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for your wife and your marriage. Remember that God can change even the hardest of hearts. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:1 WEB:
Wives, in the same way, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word.