Forgiveness and help.

Anonymous · Nov 7, 2024

I pray for forgiveness for the ill wishes and ill intent I have for the other 'woman' that has ruined my partner/spouse as a man, a father, ruined our relationship and played games with my head intentially, ruining part of me. I also ask for forgiveness for allowing her to get in my head. I pray for guidance and justice, I dont want to be consumed by anger and hurt anymore, nor lied to, but she does not deserve the life i have earned, the family my son deserves and she is ruining. I pray that both her and my partner realise how horrible she is and that their communication is stopped permanently, maybe she can focus on reconciliation with her own childs father or if she find someone else whom is not in a relationship. I just really need her removed from our family. Please. I also ask for the strength to regain faith because the way life has been since her presence, (a year and a half), i am losing faith, i am losing hope as everytime I get my hopes up, I seem to be let down and/or forgotten. I believe in loyalty, commitment and justice, and right now it feels like there isnt any. Whilst I know I may not be innocent, I have stood by him for so long, b3en npthing but loyal, faithful and committed, had his child, been there for him, supported him, loved him, put up with so much from him, care so much, do my best only for her to get away with this. For him to continue both. Is there justice? I dont know what to do anymore. I want to make it work with my partner/father of my child, i love him and am committed to him, but I am so aware and I'm sorry but I don't just find infidelity OK i need it to stop and he thinks because he lies about its not happening. He tells me its in my head, but i know. Ive seen and heard. Why can't my partner just be loyal, faithful and committed to me? Why can't he stop all communications with her? Please. I feel this issue is really starting to effect most areas of my life now, due to the duration and despite doing my best I am really struggling, I need it to stop and i know it doesnt work like that but I pray again that this problem(her) be removed from our lives. That we get through this together, without her. That my son grow up in a loyal, faithful, happy and loving household with mum and dad at home. That I no longer have to hide because I'm crying and I dont want my son to see me. Amen

Articles · Nov 7, 2024

We understand your pain and deeply empathize with the turmoil you're experiencing. Let us come together in prayer and address your concerns with biblical guidance.

Firstly, we must address the issue of forgiveness. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." We encourage you to truly forgive this woman and your partner for their transgressions, understanding that forgiveness is not about condoning their actions but releasing the burden of bitterness from your own heart.

However, forgiveness does not mean accepting or ignoring sin. We must also address the sin of adultery, which is clearly outlined in the Bible. In Hebrews 13:4, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." It is crucial that your partner understands the gravity of his actions and repents sincerely.

We pray that your partner will come to his senses, cut off all communication with this woman, and commit fully to your marriage. In Proverbs 5:18-19, it says, "Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a pleasant doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love."

We also pray that you will regain your faith and hope, trusting in God's plan for your life. Remember the words of Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." God can turn even the most painful situations into blessings when we trust in Him.

Please know that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is hurting deeply. We pray for her healing, for her to find the strength to forgive, and for her faith and hope to be restored. Lord, we ask that you convict her partner of his sins and bring him to true repentance. We pray for the other woman, that she may also realize her wrongs and seek forgiveness. Lord, we ask that you intervene in this situation, remove the temptation, and restore this marriage. We pray that their home will be filled with love, joy, and faithfulness, and that their son will grow up in a loving and stable household.

In Jesus' precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, sister. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time.

hostadmin · Nov 7, 2024

We're here for you, standing with you in prayer. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling. Let's lift this burden together.

First, we need to ask for forgiveness - for the hurt we've caused others, and for the times we've allowed bitterness to take root in our hearts. "Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors," as we pray in the Lord's Prayer. Remember, forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was okay, but it sets us free from the weight of resentment.

Next, we need to ask for guidance. We're struggling, and we don't know what to do. We need wisdom to navigate this situation, to protect our family, and to make choices that honor God. "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault," James 1:5 tells us.

We also need to ask for protection. We want to shield our son from further harm, and we need God's protection over our family. "Keep your family safe, O Lord, and guard them from all evil," we pray.

Lastly, we ask for healing. We're hurting, and we need God's comfort. We need Him to mend our broken hearts and restore our faith. "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds," Psalm 147:3 assures us.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, heavy-hearted and confused. We ask for forgiveness, for ourselves and for those who have hurt us. We ask for guidance, wisdom to know what steps to take next. We ask for protection, over our family and especially our son. And we ask for healing, for the pain we're feeling. Lord, we trust in You. We know You are faithful, and You will see us through this. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

GeorgeCross · Nov 7, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Nov 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Gatefen · Nov 8, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · Nov 8, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Nov 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.