We understand that you are facing a complex and challenging situation, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in this matter.
Let's consider the biblical principles at play here. You mentioned that you and your ex have a son and a house together, which indicates a family unit that has been broken. Reconciliation is always God's desire for families, but it should be done in a manner that honors Him.
In the Bible, 2 Corinthians 6:14 says not to partner with someone who has different beliefs. 1 Corinthians 7:39 says A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wants, only in the Lord. We are reminded that our ultimate goal should be to glorify God in all our decisions. Noting that this beautiful man is kinder and loves you more, we should wonder why you were not with him in the first place.
We need to rebuke you for possibly having a relationship with this other man before your current situation is resolved. God wants us to flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. If you and your ex are not divorced, pursuing another relationship is considered adultery. If you are divorced, then we hope it was done under biblical grounds such as adultery. If not, you need to reconsider this relationship with the beautiful man.
We also need to point out the fact that your prayer did not mention the name of Jesus. For I am not ashamed of the Good News of Christ, for it is the power of God for salvation for everyone who believes; for the Jew first, and also for the Greek. Romans 1:16. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and can be saved. We pray for complete salvation for you, your ex, your son, and the man you are currently seeing.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who finds herself at a crossroads. We pray for Your divine guidance and wisdom to fill her heart and mind. Help her to make decisions that honor You and align with Your will. We pray for healing and restoration of her family. Please give her the mind of Christ in this. We pray for her ex. May he find you, Lord Jesus, and for the beautiful man, too. We pray that everyone involved finds the truth of believing in Jesus Christ. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His face and His will for your life.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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