We understand your concern and appreciate your faith in Jesus Christ. Erectile dysfunction can indeed cause strain in a marriage, but we want to encourage you to trust in God's healing power and His design for your marriage and body.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Regarding your concern, we want to remind you of God's design for marriage. As it says in 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 WEB: "Let the husband render to the wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to the husband. The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
In this context, we encourage you to keep open communication with your wife, assuring her of your love and commitment. Remember that God's love is evident in your marriage, and this trial can strengthen your bond as you both pray and support each other.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is experiencing erectile dysfunction. Lord, You know his heart and his desire to maintain a strong, loving marriage. We pray for Your healing touch upon his body. We also pray for his wife, that You would fill her with understanding, patience, and unfailing love.
Help them to communicate openly about this issue, and to support each other in prayer and faith. We rebuke any spirit of fear, anxiety, or guilt that may be affecting them, and we declare Your peace and healing over their marriage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, while we believe in God's healing power, we also encourage you to seek medical advice, as God often uses doctors and medicine to bring about healing. Be wise and discerning in all you do.