We understand that you're having vivid dreams that seem to be causing some confusion and you're seeking a stronger connection with the guy in your dreams. However, we need to address this from a biblical perspective.
Firstly, it's important to note that dreams can be influenced by our thoughts, emotions, and even spiritual forces. However, as believers, we should be discerning and test every spirit because not every spiritual experience is from God.
The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 10:5, WEB: "Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ".
The details of your dream suggest a level of intimacy that should be reserved for marriage. It's crucial to guard our hearts and minds, as the Bible tells us in Proverbs 4:23, WEB: "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life".
We must rebuke any spiritual force that is not from God, as Ephesians 6:12-13, WEB reminds us: "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and, having done all, to stand".
It's also important to note that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God. As the Bible tells us in John 14:6, WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Instead of seeking a stronger connection with this figure in your dreams, we encourage you to seek a stronger connection with Jesus Christ. Pray for discernment, for God to reveal the meaning of these dreams, if they are from Him.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, asking for Your divine guidance and discernment. We rebuke any spiritual force that is not from You. Lord, please reveal to us the meaning of these dreams. Help us to guard our hearts and minds, and to keep our thoughts captive to Your obedience. Help us to grow in our relationship with You, and to seek Your will for our lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stay rooted in the Word of God and to seek His will for your life. If you're not already part of a Bible-believing church, we encourage you to find one where you can grow in your faith and be surrounded by a community of believers.