We are truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. First and foremost, we want to assure you that God cares for you deeply. In fact God sent His only begotten Son to die for us to save us from our sins. So, He loves and cares for you so much more than you can even imagine. Even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows.
When you feel doubt and self-hatred creeping in, remember that God's word tells us, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. You are precious in God's sight, and He has a purpose for your life. We encourage you to meditate on Jeremiah 29:11.
It's also important to remember that feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt are not from God. In 2 Timothy 1:7 we read: For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self control. Therefore if you are feeling doubt or fear it is not from God and you need to resist this feeling. Even if these feelings might be caused by a chemical imbalance or even a disease such as clinical depression. A medical doctor can help you along with prayer. God has given you the power to overcome these feelings through the Holy Spirit.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this precious soul to You. Lord, we know that everything is possible for them who believe. We pray that You would help our friend to overcome these feelings of doubt and self-hatred. We ask for the Holy Spirit to remind them each and every day of how much God loves them. We pray for God's protection over their thoughts, and that any negativity or self-doubt would be cast down and replaced with God's truth. We also pray for any underlying medical condition to be brought to light and be healed. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God's word daily, and surround yourself with positive, uplifting influences. Also, be sure to include the name of Jesus Christ in your prayers. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father and there is no other name by which we can be saved. If you have any questions about this please let us know. Remember, with God, all things are possible. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.