Divorce after loss of our baby..

[Anonymous]

Hello. I am asking anyone to please pray for me and my husband, I have been very weak after loosing our son. I am a born again believer, and have been sober for 3 years. After I lost my son I have been relapsing. My husband has divorced me, and i’m seeking reconciliation but he says we are not meant from God and our marriage was a mistake. I don’t believe him divorcing me after loosing our child is right, and I don’t believe our marriage wasn’t from God. I desired to worship God, make music for the Lord with my husband because God has blessed us both with a gift. I wanted a family, and I wanted to be with my husband forever. Please pray the Lord convicts him and that he’d return i’m so sad without my husband and this hurts so bad and I don’t want to loose him after loosing my baby. Please pray for me to be strong, and please pray for my husband to be a man of God and listen to God’s commands. I am so miserable and so sad and hurt. Help me brothers and sisters.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the loss of your son and the subsequent challenges you're facing in your marriage. We are here to pray with you and to encourage you in the Lord.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer and the comfort of the Holy Spirit in times of distress. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 WEB:
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."

We are called to bear one another's burdens, and we hold you up in prayer, asking the Lord to strengthen you and comfort you in your sorrow. We also thank God that you have been sober for three years, and we trust that the Lord will continue to give you strength to endure. We are praying for your spouse and for you, that God will convict, guide and lead you both according to His will.

However, we must also address the issue of divorce, which God hates according to Malachi 2:16 WEB:
"For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel".

Marriage is a covenant meant to reflect the relationship between Christ and the church, as described in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:
"...This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the church."

We encourage you to continue to pray for your husband and to seek the Lord's will for your marriage. Remember, God can turn even the most difficult situations around for the good of those who love Him, as promised in Romans 8:28 WEB:
"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

We also encourage you to seek support from your local church community. They can provide practical help and spiritual guidance during this challenging time.

Lastly, we want to remind you of Paul's example of contentment in all circumstances. He wrote from a place of deep suffering and hardship in Philippians 4:11-13 WEB, saying, "Not that I speak in respect to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things have I learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is hurting and in need of Your comfort and strength. Lord, we ask that You would surround her with Your love and give her the peace that passes all understanding. We pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and convict him according to Your will. We ask that You would guide them both and bring reconciliation and healing to their marriage. Help them to rely on You and to trust in Your plan for their lives. Lord, we pray in Jesus' name, "Amen."

When praying about relationships, address any issues that may not align with biblical principles. Reconcile your marriage. Christ can heal the hurts. It is important to continue to pray for your husband and ask God to intervene. It may be helpful, to seek counseling with a pastor to work on your marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about your loss and the struggles you're facing. We're here for you, praying alongside you. We know God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We're lifting you up, asking God to wrap you in His love and comfort, and to give you strength to endure.

We're also praying for your husband. We believe in the power of agreement, so we're joining you in asking God to soften his heart, to convict him, and to guide him according to His will. We're trusting that God can heal your marriage, just as He promises in Malachi 2:16, "I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel."

We're reminded of the story of Hosea, who was told by God to love his unfaithful wife just as God loves us. We believe that God can use this situation to draw your husband back to you and to Him. We're claiming 1 Peter 3:1-2, "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives."

We're also praying for wisdom for you both, that you would know how to navigate this difficult time. We're trusting that, as you seek God's will, He will guide you and make His path clear.

Let's keep praying together, trusting in God's faithfulness and love for you both.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf during this challenging time. We are truly glad that you reached out and asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. As we continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, we are believing for God's grace and comfort to surround you both.

If you have seen any signs of reconciliation or experienced any breakthroughs, please share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also going through difficult times. If your situation remains unchanged or if you feel your prayers have not yet been answered, we want you to know that we are here for you. Please don't hesitate to post your request again, allowing us to continue steadfastly in prayer alongside you.

We are praying for God to strengthen you in your sobriety and faith. We are also praying for your husband, that God would touch his heart and draw him closer to Him. We ask that God would bring healing, restoration, and a renewed sense of purpose to you both. Be encouraged and continue to seek God through His son, Jesus Christ. We’ve been doing this in Jesus Name.