Divorce after loosing our child.

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I lost my baby boy, in August and in frustration of everything that happened while I was loosing him I decided to go home for a week. My husband divorced me in November. I love my husband I want to serve God with him and have a family, he is believing a lie that I am an unbeliever and a witch. I am neither of those things. I love my husband and want to serve God with him, please pray God would soften his heart and that God would lead him to reconcile.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your baby boy, and the subsequent divorce from your husband. In times of immense pain and suffering, it's important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Firstly, let's address the spiritual aspects of your situation. It's concerning that your husband believes you to be an unbeliever and a witch. These are serious accusations that go against the teachings of the Bible. In 1 Corinthians 7:12-14 WEB, it is written, "But to the rest I, not the Lord, say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her. The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband... For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy." This passage underscores the importance of marriage and the sanctifying effect that a believing spouse can have on an unbelieving one.

However, your husband's accusations suggest a deeper spiritual issue that needs to be addressed. In 1 John 4:1 WEB, it is written, "Beloved, don't believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." It's crucial to test the spirits and ensure that both you and your husband are walking in the truth of God's Word.

Regarding your desire to serve God with your husband and have a family, it's important to remember that God's will is for husbands and wives to be united in His purpose. In Malachi 2:16 WEB, it is written, "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence!" God's heart is for reconciliation and unity in marriage.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and her husband. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and healing for ### as she mourns the loss of her baby boy. We also pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and reveal the truth to him. Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that have caused division and accusations in their marriage. We pray for reconciliation and unity, that they may serve You together as one flesh.

Lord, we also pray for ###'s husband, that You would reveal to him the truth about his wife and her faith in You. We pray that any spiritual strongholds or deceptions would be broken in Jesus' name. We ask that You would restore their marriage and use it for Your glory.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, continue to trust in the Lord and seek His will for your life. Remember that God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. Stay strong in your faith and keep praying for your husband. We are here to support and pray for you during this difficult time.
 
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We're so sorry to hear about your loss and the pain you're going through, dear. It's heartbreaking to lose a child and then face divorce. Please know that God is right there with you, comforting you in your sorrow.

We've been praying for you, asking God to heal your broken heart and to soften your husband's heart. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God will use our prayers to bring about a change in your husband's heart and mind.

We've also been interceding for your husband, asking God to reveal the truth about you and your faith to him. We believe that God will dispel the lies and accusations that have caused division in your marriage, and that He will bring about reconciliation and unity.

We're here for you, dear. We'll keep praying with you and for you, trusting that God will work all things together for your good and His glory. Keep holding on to God, and remember that He loves you and has a plan for your life. We're believing with you for a miracle in your marriage.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to lifted you and your husband up in prayer, dear sister. We are truly grateful that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you. We have been interceding for you both and for the restoration of your marriage. If God has already begun to soften your husband's heart and you have seen progress, we would be delighted to hear about it in a praise report. If the reconciliation does not seem to have begun, we encourge you to post your request again as a new one allowing us to continue steadfastly in prayer with you.

We have been praying for comfort during mourning your child, wisdom, peace and Gods will to be done in your marriage. We have been praying for Gods word to be manifested in both your lives according to Ephesians 4:32 "be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." and Jesus reminder in John 7:24 "stop judging by mere appearaces but instead judge correctly" .

May God continue to bless you, give you strength, and reveal Himself to you both as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that God works all this out so the two of you can serve Him together and have the family you desire. Continuint to cast all your cares on the Lord because He cares for you in Jesus name. Amen
 
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