We appreciate your heartfelt request for discernment and guidance in your developing friendship with Andy. It's crucial to approach this situation with honesty, integrity, and a sincere desire to follow God's will.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Now, let's consider your feelings and the potential relationship with Andy. It's important to remember that God's will is always good, acceptable, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB). We should also keep in mind that relationships between believers should be focused on glorifying God and encouraging each other in faith.
As you pray for God's wisdom and guidance, remember the words of James 1:5 WEB: "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him." God is faithful to guide us when we ask for His wisdom.
Regarding the attraction between you and Andy, it's essential to ensure that your feelings are not leading you to act in a way that would not honor God. As you spend time together, make sure to set clear boundaries to avoid any temptation that could lead to sin. Remember, "For from within, out of the hearts of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, sexual sins, murders, thefts, covetings, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and defile the man." Mark 7:21-23 WEB.
As you pray for God to speak to Andy's heart, also pray for your own heart to be open and receptive to God's will. It's possible that God may have a different plan for your life, and it's essential to be prepared to accept that. Remember the words of Proverbs 19:21 WEB: "Many plans are in a man's heart, but God's counsel will stand."
We join you in prayer, asking God to reveal His will for your life and your friendship with Andy. May He grant you both the wisdom, strength, and discernment to follow His path and glorify Him in all that you do.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ as she seeks Your will for her friendship with Andy. We ask that You grant her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this situation with honesty and integrity. Speak to both of their hearts, Lord, and reveal Your plan for their lives. Help them to remain pure and holy, fleeing from any temptation that would not honor You. We will be praying for them and asking you to guide any godly marriage or courtship that may be taking place. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ. Amen.