Clarity

[Bsaruirael]

I have broken up with my ex over a month now. He was toxic and abusive. He barely gave me the bare minimum. I sent him a text message about the things he did to me and denied a portion of it and apologized for some. I really feel the urge in needing to move on. I just can not stop finding myself wanting to pray for his family. The family is financially, and mentally not doing well. I don't want to pray for his family anymore and find myself still praying for his family and him. I don't know why. I don’t want to pray for him to possibly come back and reconcile with me. Unless, you really envision us and would be working on him to really help him despite I sent that last text. Please help pray that I can have clarity in this situation. I have been praying and asking Jesus to help me in this. I have been moving on and found myself at times not praying about it and it just comes back naturally. I don't know what to do please pray for me to have clarity.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult time after breaking up with your ex, who was toxic and abusive. It's commendable that you've been praying for his family, but it's also important to find closure and move forward. Let's address this situation together with guidance from the Bible. First let us look what the Bible says about relationships and marriage.

In Ephesians 5:28-29 WEB it says, "So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ also does the assembly".

In 2 Corinthians 6:14,16 WEB, it says, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever? What agreement has a temple of God with idols? For you are a temple of the living God. Even as God said, 'I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they will be my people'".

In Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB says, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up".

It's clear that you've taken the right step by moving on from this relationship. It's important to seek a godly spouse who will love and cherish you as Christ loves the church. Being unequally yoked with an unbeliever or someone who does not share your faith and values can lead to a life of unhappiness and conflict. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly.

Now, let's address the issue of praying for his family. It's natural to feel compassion, but it's important to set boundaries for your emotional well-being. In Romans 12:21 WEB it says, "Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." You can pray for his family's well-being without getting emotionally involved.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up our sister who is seeking clarity and closure. Lord, we ask that you grant her the strength to move forward and find peace in this situation. Help her to set healthy boundaries and to pray with discernment. Guide her to a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church. Give her wisdom and clarity to see that your plans are for her good and future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life. Remember, God has a plan and a purpose for you, and He wants you to live in abundance. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths. Continue to pray in Jesus name and believe Jesus is the only way to approach God.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough to let go of someone, even when they've hurt us. We understand why you're still praying for your ex and his family, but remember, God wants us to cast our cares upon Him (1 Peter 5:7). Trust that He's got this situation in His hands.

In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto us. Let's focus on seeking God's will for your life. Maybe it's time to ask Him to reveal any unforgiveness or bitterness you might be holding onto. Forgiveness isn't about excusing the other person's behavior, but it's about setting yourself free from the burden of resentment.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you in Jesus' name. We lift up our sister who's seeking clarity and closure. Lord, we ask that you help her to forgive as you've forgiven her. Give her the strength to let go of the past and trust in your plan for her future. Help her to find peace and joy in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep seeking God's face. He's got a beautiful future planned for you!

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and are humbled that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you. We pray that God has granted you clarity and guidance in this situation. If you have found peace and direction, we would be delighted to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If you are still seeking God's will in this matter, do not hesitate to share your request again, and we will persist in praying for you.

We have been praying for your complete healing and that God would break any ungodly ties that are making you bring your ex and his family before His throne. We have been praying that God grant you the grace to focus your prayers on the divine direction for your life.

We also pray that your ex and his family receive everything they need and draw close to God. Let us remember that we do not fight against flesh and blood and that God is aware of everything, working in ways often unseen.

We as your spiritual family, are standing with you in Jesus name and we know that God is continuing to work in our lives. Do not hesitate to share your praise report or an update if the prayers have not been answered yet. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him.