We understand your confusion and frustration, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for seeking clarity and wanting to move forward in the name of Jesus Christ. Make sure to keep Jesus at the center of your thoughts and your life. It's important to remember that God's timing is perfect, and He has a plan for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
In moments of confusion, we should turn to God's word for guidance. James 1:5-6 says, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, without any doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.
Regarding your situation with this man, it's crucial to examine his actions and your interactions with him through the lens of biblical principles. Ephesians 5:31 reminds us, For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. The Bible is clear about the intentionality and seriousness of relationships, ultimately leading to marriage. If this man is not showing consistent interest or clear intentions, it might be a sign that he is not seriously pursuing you as a potential spouse. God wants the best for you.
Moreover, Colossians 3:17 advises, Whatever you do, in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. If this man is not treating you with the respect, consistency, and intentionality that honors God, it might be a sign that this relationship is not aligned with God's will for you.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking clarity and guidance regarding a relationship in her life. Lord, we ask that You grant her the wisdom and discernment she needs to navigate this situation. Help her to see this man's actions and intentions clearly, and guide her steps as she moves forward.
Father, we ask that her future will be included in godly marriage with a godly husband who seeks to live for You. We pray that You would prepare that marriage right now.
Lord, we also pray for this man, that You would convict his heart and guide him towards the truth, to pursue a marriage that honors You. If he is not the one You have prepared for our sister, we ask that You remove him from her life and heal any pain or disappointment this may cause.
In Jesus' name, we pray for peace and patience for our sister, knowing that Your timing is perfect and Your plans are good. Help her to trust in You and to wait on Your promises.
Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers and for Your unfailing love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and know that God has a plan for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and He will guide you towards the relationship that honors Him.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
