We understand that you are seeking clarity in a relationship and we will pray with you for God's will to be done. However, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we will pray this in Jesus name and we encourage you to do the same.
We also need to address that the relationship should be with a marriage in mind otherwise it is not biblical.
Let us pray together.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will for this relationship. We pray for clarity and guidance, and that You will reveal the true feelings and intentions of the man in this situation. We ask that You calm his fears and guide him to embrace love openly, as You have called us to love one another in 1 John 4:7 WEB: "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God, and knows God."
If it is Your will for this relationship to progress towards a godly marriage, we pray for commitment and a clear path forward. However, if it is not Your will, we ask that You give the strength and grace to move forward and trust in Your perfect plan.
We also pray for trust in You to guide and direct this relationship and the future. Help the both parties to trust in You with all their heart, and not lean on their own understanding as per Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
In all things, let Your will be done. Give this person peace and help them apply Colossians 3:15 WEB: "And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful."
Help this person to desire and seek after a marriage that You have planned for them, and not settle for lustful or unbiblical relationships.
We ask this all in Jesus Christ's name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to study the scriptures and seek God's will for your life. Trust in Him to guide you and direct your paths. He knows what the best is and wants to give you the desires of your heart when you delight yourself in Him.