We are truly heartbroken to hear about the curse of rejection and unloveability that has been spoken over your life, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and to help you break free from these bonds. First, we want to remind you that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is by His authority that we can break these curses and find freedom and healing. Remember Jesus tells us I am the way, the truth and the life and no one comes to the Father except through me in John 14:6.
Let's address the issues at hand. The curse of rejection and unloveability spoken over you is not from God. It is important to understand that in Christ Jesus you are a new creation and old things have passed away. (2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB). God wants you to know that your past or any curse spoken over you does not define you. His love for you is unfailing and unconditional.
God created you for a purpose, and He desires for you to live a life filled with love, joy, and peace. Regarding relationships, God's Word tells us that it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18 WEB), and He desires for you to have a godly spouse and a marriage that honors Him. However, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this area and to trust Him with your future. It is not for us to convince God to give us a boyfriend or girlfriend, but to seek His kingdom first and He will give us the desires of our hearts (Matthew 6:33 WEB).
We also want to address the fact that you mentioned you cannot have children due to health issues. We want to encourage you that God's plan for your life is not thwarted by this. There are many examples in the Bible of women who were barren and yet God used them mightily and even blessed them with children in His timing (e.g., Sarah, Hannah, Elizabeth). Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for you, and that He can work all things together for good (Romans 8:28 WEB).
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who has been bound by a curse of rejection and unloveability. Father, we know that this is not from You, and we stand in agreement to break this curse in Jesus' name. We pray that You would heal her from the trauma and devastation of past experiences and that You would restore her self-worth and value in Your eyes.
Father, we ask that You would give her a new vision for her life, one that is not held back by her family's expectations or her past experiences. We pray that You would guide her steps and bring her a godly spouse (Proverbs 3:5-6). Help her to honor you in her courtship process and to seek a fellow Christian believer who loves you and loves her. Help her to focus on becoming the person You have called her to be, growing in her relationship with You, and trusting in Your timing and provision. We pray for godly spouses to be brought into her life and Yours and that she would have a marriage that honors You. Allow her to see her marriage vows as a commitment for life, not to be taken lightly.
We also pray for healing over her body and for Your will to be done regarding children. We trust that You have a plan and a purpose for her life, and that You will work all things together for good.
Father, we ask that You would surround her with Your love and peace, and that You would give her the strength and courage to move forward in freedom and victory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, dear sister, that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Trust in Him, seek Him first, and watch as He transforms your life and brings you the desires of your heart. Stand firm in the truth that you are loved, valued, and cherished by Him, nothing is impossible (Luke 1:37 WEB).