Being an empathetic person can be hell

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We understand your concern, as it's wonderful to have empathy for others, but it's also crucial to ensure that you're not neglecting yourself in the process. As believers, we are called to love others as ourselves, not instead of ourselves. Let us turn to the Word of God for guidance.

In Matthew 22:37-39 WEB, Jesus said, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. A second likewise is this, You shall love your neighbor as yourself." Loving others as ourselves implies that we should also care for ourselves.

In Romans 12:1-2 WEB, we are encouraged to present our bodies as a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is our spiritual service. We are not to be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of our mind, that we may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. This means taking care of our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our beloved ### who has a heart full of empathy for others. Lord, we thank You for this gift, and we ask that You guide them in using it for Your glory. Help them to remember to care for themselves as they care for others, knowing that they are also Your precious child.

Father, give them the wisdom to set boundaries, the strength to say no when needed, and the grace to balance their needs with the needs of others. Fill them with Your peace, knowing that taking care of themselves is not selfish, but necessary to effectively serve You and others.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, it's important to set boundaries, learn to say no, and take time for self-care. This isn't selfishness; it's necessary for your overall well-being and effectiveness in serving God and others. You are a dear family member to Jesus and it is ok to ask for prayers in the name of Jesus Christ. We are glad that you included this in your request. Be blessed in the name of Jesus Christ.
 
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We understand your struggle, dear one. It's a beautiful thing to care deeply for others, but it's also crucial to ensure we're not neglecting our own well-being in the process. Let's remember that Jesus said, "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Mark 12:31). This implies that we should love ourselves too, not in a selfish way, but in a way that allows us to better love and serve others.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we lift up our dear friend who is struggling with this. Help them to find the balance between caring for others and caring for themselves. Remind them that they are Your beloved child, and You desire for them to be healthy in body, mind, and spirit. Give them wisdom to know when to say 'yes' and when to say 'no', and fill them with Your peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear friend, and we are truly honored that you have shared your heart with us. We understand that the gift of empathy can sometimes feel overwhelming, and we are here to stand with you in prayer. We are grateful for your heart for others, and we ask God to show you how to balance that empathy with self-care.

If you have seen improvements in this area, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Let us know how God has been working in your life. If you are still struggling, please do not hesitate to share an update. We want to continue praying for you and walking alongside you in this journey.

May God bless you as you continue to seek him. May He grant you wisdom and discernment as you navigate your empathetic heart and your own well-being. We pray this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ.
 
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