Asking god to help me to forgive myself

[Callum]

Dear heavenly father I come to you right now in the name of Jesus to tell you lord that every day is agony for me at the moment because I keep living in the things that I have done and no matter what I tried to do I can't forgive myself I know you have forgiven me but I just don't know what to do in order to let things go lord you brought an amazing woman into my life last year and yeah she did things wrong and wouldn't listen to me when I asked her to stop because she was hurting me but I forgive her lord but I know she can't forgive me or forget what I did lord I hate myself for it and if there was a way that I could turn back time I would but I know there isn't I still have deep feelings for her lord but I know I need to move on and I'm struggling with that I regret what I did and I'm sorry I truly am but I know lord that saying sorry to her it's too little too late even though I was honest and truthful it doesn't count the fact that I broke her trust and her heart with what I did when I broke her heart lord I broke my own at the same time and it pains me every day I haven't stopped thinking about what I did and you already know what I've done lord thank you for being there no matter what I just wish I knew the way to forgive myself and forget so that I can move on and have a happy life with you at the center of my life lord and at the center of my relationships I just don't know what to do anymore every day is agony and even though I have my friends my family a new with me lord there's something missing and I know that's love the love of a woman that will see past my flaws and love me for who I am so I raise myself up to you lord asking you to please help me to forgive myself and to find an everlasting love that honors your name and make our lord and savior Jesus Christ I pray amen

 

[Articles]

Callum, we understand that you're going through a difficult time, struggling to forgive yourself for past mistakes and dealing with the pain of a broken relationship. First, we want to assure you that God's forgiveness is complete and His love for you is unfailing. As it is written in Psalm 103:11-12 (WEB), "For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his loving kindness toward those who fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us."

However, we need to remind you that true repentance involves turning away from sin. You mentioned that you still have deep feelings for this woman, but it's crucial to examine these feelings in light of God's Word. If you are thinking of reconciliation, it should be with the goal of marriage in mind, as God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If you are thinking of reconciliation, it should be with the goal of marriage in mind, as God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If you are thinking of reconciliation, it should be with the goal of marriage in mind, as God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If there was fornication or sexual immorality in the past, it is important to acknowledge this sin, repent, and turn away from it.

Moreover, it's important to remember that God's forgiveness does not always mean that earthly consequences will be removed. The woman may choose not to reconcile, and it's crucial to respect her decision. Trust that God has a plan for your life, and He can turn even the most painful experiences into opportunities for growth and testimony.

Regarding forgiving yourself, remember that God's forgiveness is the foundation of our forgiveness towards ourselves and others. Colossians 3:13 (WEB) tells us, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." If God has forgiven you, you can also forgive yourself.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Callum. We thank You for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. Help Callum to truly accept Your forgiveness and to forgive himself. Guide him in Your path, and if it is Your will, bring a godly wife into his life, a woman who will love and respect him, and together they may honor and glorify Your name. Help him to trust that You are working all things for his good, even when he can't see the full picture because You promised us in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Give him strength, peace, and hope in Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to you God, and it is only by His name that we can be saved. Continue to guide Callum and give him strength, peace, and hope as he continues to seek Your face.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged, Callum. God is faithful, and He will help you through this. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths to a spouse if that is His will for you.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey Callum,

We're here with you, feeling the weight of your past and the struggle to forgive yourself. It's tough, we know. But remember, God's love for you is like the sun, always there, always shining, even on the cloudiest of days. He's forgiven you, completely, and that's what matters most.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, keep talking to Him like you're doing here. It's in those conversations that He'll guide you, heal you, and help you find peace.

You mentioned that you still have deep feelings for this woman. It's okay to feel, Callum, but it's important to examine those feelings in light of God's Word. If there's a chance for reconciliation, great, but it should be with the goal of marriage in mind, as God designed intimacy to be experienced within the bounds of marriage.

If there was sin in the past, acknowledge it, repent, and turn away from it. God's forgiveness is the foundation for our forgiveness towards ourselves and others. Colossians 3:13 tells us, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man hath a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."

Trust that God has a plan for your life, Callum. Even when it's hard to see, even when it hurts, He's working all things for your good. Keep trusting Him, keep seeking Him, and He'll direct your paths.

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Callum. Thank You for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. Help Callum to truly accept Your forgiveness and to forgive himself. Guide him in Your path, and if it's Your will, bring a godly wife into his life, a woman who will love and respect him, and together they may honor and glorify Your name. Help him to trust that You are working all things for his good, even when he can't see the full picture. Give him strength, peace, and hope in Jesus Christ. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting, Callum. God is faithful, and He's got you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dan T]

Heavenly Father, you are Jehovah Jireh, our God who provides everything that we need to live in this world, and we thank you for being so involved in the small details of our lives! Papa, we lift this person to you today and we ask that you fill them with your Spirit of Peace, Hope and Determination, allow them to live their day with complete faith in you we ask you to allow them to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you! Please guide this person into your abundant blessings. We come to you in Jesus' name...amen and amen!

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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