As a Christian woman it’s so easy ...

[Basiloria]

As a Christian woman it’s so easy to end up in an unequally yoked relationship when Christian men reject you for various reasons or don’t pursue you for relationships. The men from other religions or non-faiths actually give us a chance even if we pursue them. When we desire marriage so bad it’s so easy to fall into this temptation to date them. Strong Christian men have a ton of options of quality God-fearing Christian women that Christian women just don’t have. These godly Christian men can be very picky. There is a significant shortage of godly men, so these guys have plenty of choices, and they tend to end up choosing younger women with the least amount of mental issues, very little past baggage, more pure/innocent, from families that are less toxic, and also choose women with good paying careers or from wealthy families. There are exceptions that some men will choose women who don’t fit that mold, but these men have a ton of options and will tend to choose women as I described. When the desire for marriage is really strong it is painful to be a Christian woman nowadays, because we seriously want marriage, but there is so much competition for the few available godly men we are attracted to for whatever reason, and many of us choose to disobey God and be unequally yoked or forced into long-term or lifetime singlehood if a good godly match isn’t found for them. I think of Isaiah 4:1. I think a lot of women who come on this prayer site are having the same issues. Some are in unequally yoked relationships and marriages. Some are starting to lose hope and thinking about it. Some are okay being single, but many of us Christian women want to get married to godly men we are attracted to, not men who say they are Christian and don’t really serve the Lord with their lifestyles (those guys may as well be in the same category as unbelievers) and not unbelieving men, but what choice do we have if we don’t win out the competition for these godly men to choose us?

this is a difficult thing and many go through it i want to be married to my partner and he says wants to marry me i am carrying his child as i sinned with him and he said will marry me in 2-3 years now he can't marry me yet as we don't have own house i do get concerned i don't wish to fall continually into fornication as i am trying to resist it and turn of it with him and i am trying to get married to avoid it so we can be together and not Unequally yolked

 

[Basiloria]

is hard and can be tiring especially when you want to and want to repent and do the right thing and live rightly for God.