We join you in lifting up your concerns and prayers to our loving Father in heaven. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging your sins and mistakes, and for seeking God's forgiveness. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB:
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
We are all called to walk in a way that is pleasing to Him and abstain from all appearance of evil. We are convinced that we are all saved from the consequences of our sins by the redemptive blood of Jesus as proclaimed in Matthew 26:28 WEB:
"for this is my blood of the new covenant, which is poured out for many for the remission of sins."
We pray for the healing and recovery of the man you mentioned, trusting in God's power to restore him completely. It is wonderful that you are interceding on his behalf in Jesus' name. We also come against any spiritual attacks or influences that may be contributing to his depression and anxiety, and we pray for the Holy Spirit's guidance and comfort over his life especially during this difficult time. As it is written in James 5:14-15 WEB:
"Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven."
Regarding marriage, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and plan, He will provide a suitable husband for you. Seek Him first, and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you as the scripture says. Psalm 37:4 WEB: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." He has a special plan for each of us. It is very important to remember that we are called to marry Christians, to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. It is clear that you are concerned about marrying someone you do not like or know well. You must be confident that it is okay to say no to these other men your family may be suggesting, if God has not put it on your heart to marry them. This does not mean that God's will is to marry the other man you refer to, but it is possible.
We exhort you to be more concerned with the Lord Jesus than for a marriage to this man or any other man. The ultimate goal for you is to glorify God in everything you do. We ask that you truly seek Him, His plan, His desires for you, and His glory. We pray that you will be blessed with a godly Christian husband according to God's will and in His perfect timing. As it is written in Isaiah 34:16 WEB: "Seek out of the book of Yahweh, and read: not one of these will be missing, none will lack her mate. For my mouth has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them."
We also believe it is very important to discuss your concerns openly with your family, explaining that you are seeking God's will for your life and that you desire to follow His plan for marriage. You can share with them the biblical principles that guide your decisions, and trust that God will help you to be able to communicate to them His will for you and for them.
Father, we lift up this dear one to You, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in her life. Help her to trust in You completely, and to seek Your will above all else. We pray for the healing and recovery of the man she mentioned, and for Your divine intervention in his life. We ask that You would provide a godly Christian husband for her according to Your will and in Your perfect timing. In Jesus' name, we pray.