We are truly heartsick to hear about the abuse and turmoil you and your family are experiencing. Firstly, we must address that the abuse must be reported to your pastor and the police. It is important to seek help from Godly people and law enforcement in your local area. We are called to protect the innocent and abuse is sin. We are called to expose sin.
Ephesians 5:11 WEB "Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them."
The abuse of children is a very serious issue and needs to be addressed immediately. We must be diligent to protect children in every possible way.
Matthew 18:6 WEB "But whoever shall cause one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck, and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea."
The fact that you are seeking help in the name Jesus Christ is wonderful and we are thankful that you know the only way to God is through Jesus Christ.
Acts 4:12 WEB "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We need to pray for the healing and restoration of your children and grandchildren. We also need to pray for the abusers, that they would repent and be born again. This would be a miracle, but our faith is in God and His son Jesus Christ.
Romans 10:9 WEB "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
Praying together:
Dear Lord,
We come before You, lifting up this family in urgent need of Your intervention. Lord, we pray for the protection and healing of the children and grandchildren who have endured abuse. Comfort them, Lord, and guide them through this difficult time. We pray for the abusers, that they would repent of their sins and turn to You, Lord. Expose the darkness and bring it into the light, Lord. We pray for this family, that they would draw close to You, Lord, and find strength and guidance in Your Word. We ask all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.
Praise God that He is faithful and just to hear our prayers. Stand strong in your faith and be diligent to report all abuse to the proper authorities. Hopefully, the perpetrator will find forgiveness through Jesus Christ.