We are truly concerned for your spiritual and emotional well-being, dear friend. The struggle you're facing is a serious one, but we are here to help you find freedom and forgiveness in Jesus Christ.
Firstly, let's address the issue of sexual addiction. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (WEB) tells us, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or donβt you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Godβs." Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and sexual immorality defiles that temple.
Regarding the misuse of money, Matthew 25:40 (WEB) says, "Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me." By choosing to spend money on prostitutes instead of helping a friend in need, you're not honoring God or the people He loves.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear friend who is struggling with sexual addiction. Father, we ask for Your forgiveness and Your healing power to break these chains of bondage. Give him the strength to flee from sexual immorality and to honor his body as Your temple. Lord, we also pray for a change of heart regarding the use of his resources. Help him to be generous and caring towards those in need, just as You are. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, guide him, and comfort him during this time of struggle. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to take practical steps towards recovery. This may include seeking professional help, joining a support group, and most importantly, cultivating a strong relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that true freedom and forgiveness can be found. If you haven't already, accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, trust in His redeeming power, and strive to live according to His will.
Lastly, remember that God's mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). Don't be too hard on yourself. Keep seeking His face and His righteousness, and He will grant you the peace and freedom you so desperately desire.