We understand your concern and heartache, Dexter2020. Let's bring this situation before the Lord, seeking His will and guidance according to His Word.
Firstly, let's address the motives and intentions. The Bible tells us, "All a person's ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the LORD" (Proverbs 16:2, WEB). It's important to examine our own hearts and motivations, and encourage others to do the same.
Regarding your former companion, it's evident that her motivations were misplaced. She seemed to be seeking glory and status rather than truly worshipping God. Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for similar reasons, saying, "But all their works they do to be seen by men. They make their phylacteries broad, enlarge the fringes of their garments, and love the place of honor at feasts, the best seats in the synagogues, the salutations in the marketplaces, and to be called 'Rabbi, Rabbi' by men" (Matthew 23:5-7, WEB).
Let's pray for her, that she may repent and turn her heart towards truly seeking God. "If my people, who are called by my name, shall humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land" (2 Chronicles 7:14, WEB).
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Dexter2020 and his former companion. Lord, we ask that You reveal any impure motives in our hearts and help us to realign our focus on You. We pray for Dexter's former companion, that You would soften her heart and open her eyes to the truth. Help her to see the error of her ways and turn towards You with a genuine desire to worship You in spirit and truth.
Lord Jesus, we also pray for Dexter2020, that You would heal his heart from this hurt and disappointment. Help him to trust in You and find comfort in Your love. Guide him to a godly wife who truly loves and serves You, if it is Your will.
Lastly, we pray that both of them would understand that it's only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Thank You, Lord Jesus, for Your sacrifice on the cross for our sins. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to trust in the Lord, Dexter2020. He has a good and perfect plan for your life. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28, WEB). Keep your focus on Him and His Word.