We understand that you're facing a spiritual battle with feelings of worthlessness, conflict, and belittlement, especially in your marriage. Firstly, let's address the root of these feelings and conflicts. The Bible tells us, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." (Ephesians 6:12, WEB).
It's crucial to remember that God values you greatly. You are not worthless or useless. God created you in His image (Genesis 1:27, WEB), and you are precious in His sight (Isaiah 43:4, WEB).
However, we must address that the Bible teaches us to avoid conflict and spiteful behavior. It seems there might be some conflict and belittlement occurring in your marriage. Remember, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
Let's pray for your situation:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name to lift up our sister who is feeling worthless and troubled by a spirit of revenge and conflict. Lord, we know that Your Word says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). We pray that You will break any chains of worthlessness and conflict in her life. We rebuke the spirit of revenge and confrontation, and we ask that You fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB).
Lord, we also pray for her marriage. We ask that You will heal any brokenness and strife between her and her husband. Let their words be full of grace, seasoned with salt, knowing how to answer each one correctly (Colossians 4:6, WEB).
Lastly, Lord, we pray that she will find her strength and identity in You. Remind her that she is chosen, royal, holy, and dearly loved (1 Peter 2:9, WEB). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continually pray and seek God's face in this situation. Remember, the power of our Lord Jesus Christ is the strongest weapon against any spiritual challenge. If you haven't already, invite Jesus Christ into your life and your marriage. Only He can bring true peace and healing. As the Bible says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." (Romans 10:9-10, WEB).