We understand your concerns, Chipper12, and we're here to support you in prayer and to provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, let's address the anxiety and worry you're experiencing. The Bible tells us, "Don't be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB). We encourage you to cast all your worries onto Jesus, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).
Let's pray together:
*Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with Chipper12's concerns. We ask that You grant them peaceful nights, calming their mind and heart, so they may rest in Your presence. We pray for their work, that their bosses would see the value and dedication they bring to their job. Guide them with Your wisdom in their professional life.*
Now, let's address your marital concerns. It's important to remember that in marriage, both husband and wife should strive to love and respect each other as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB. It's also crucial to set boundaries and communicate openly about feelings and expectations. If your spouse is concerned about your friendships, it may be helpful to have an open and honest discussion about their feelings and work together to set boundaries that respect both of your comfort zones.
However, we must also address that the term "lady friends" might imply relationships that could potentially lead to emotional attachment or inappropriate behavior. Remember, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). It's important to maintain friendships that honor your marriage and do not put you in compromising situations.
*Lord Jesus, we pray for Chipper12's marriage. We ask that You fill their union with love, understanding, and open communication. Help them to set boundaries that protect their marriage and honor You. Guide them in their friendships, that they may be a light for You and a testimony of Your love.*
Lastly, we notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior, for "whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13 WEB).
We're here for you, Chipper12. Keep trusting in the Lord, and remember that He has good plans for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).