We understand that you're dealing with a mix of anxieties and we're here to support you and pray with you in Jesus' name. First, we want to remind you of God's promise in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB): "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Regarding your spouse, we want to encourage you to love and respect them as outlined in Ephesians 5:33 (WEB): "Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband." It's important to communicate openly and honestly with them about your feelings and theirs. It's also crucial to set boundaries and encourage them to seek their fulfillment in Christ rather than in you. It is not appropriate for them to be jealous of time spent with friends of the same gender, especially if they are Christian. In 1 Corinthians 10:13 (WEB) it says, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." God will give you both strength and wisdom.
However, it's important to address that while it's good to have friends, we should be cautious of the appearances we create. Even if your friendships are innocent, if your spouse is uncomfortable, it may be wise to reassess these relationships. In 1 Thessalonians 5:22 (WEB), it says "Abstain from every form of evil." This means understanding that perceptions are important as well as reality. It is also important that they are Christian believers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Also remember, Colossians 3:17 (WEB), "Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him."
The work situation has your anxiety heightened as well. This is an appropriate request.
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the options for new friends, would you bring Christian friends of the same gender into this person's life, who would encourage their walk with You. We pray for their marriage, that it would be strong and God-honoring, that any jealousy or insecurity would be overcome by Your love. We ask that you would provide the spouse with friends of the same gender that would encourage their walk with You as well. Help them to communicate openly and honestly and to respect each other's feelings. We pray for peace and comfort for their worries and anxieties of their work. Guide them in managing their finances. We pray for healing and provision for their mother, trusting in Your promise in James 5:15 (WEB), 'The prayer of faith will save him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.' May they find all worry and anxiety replaced by Your perfect peace. May they find rest in sleep. May they find the root of all issues and pull them out. "For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ" (2 Corinthians 10:3-5 WEB). We also pray for their finances and work situations, that You would guide them and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. We ask all this in Jesus' name, Amen."
Remember, it is only in the name of Jesus that we can come to God. Acts 4:12 (WEB) "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
