We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing with your husband. Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance and intervention.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer and the importance of seeking God's will in all things. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12 WEB, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." Indeed, there may be spiritual warfare at play, and it is crucial to cover your husband and your home in prayer.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in Christ and her husband. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, and You see the changes that have occurred in his personality. We ask that You intervene in this situation. If there is any medication or other influence causing this change, please reveal it and guide them to the necessary help.
We pray for a spiritual breakthrough in their home. As per Ephesians 3:20 WEB "Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us," we praise You by faith that a supernatural work happens in this marriage.
Cast out any spiritual darkness, Lord, let him be delivered from any concerns or issues which would cause him to be so irritable. As he was in the past, that delight to the spirit that he had seen in him previously. We plead the blood of Jesus over their home and their marriage, knowing that there is power in the name of Jesus and that at His name, every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth. Father, provide peace and unity in their home, and help them to stand firm against any spiritual attacks.
Furthermore, as married people, it's important to love each other with a steadfast love. We should be reminded of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast and it is not proud. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. You can always speak the truth and seek love. Speak to your husband how his irritability affects the house and let it be known after much prayer and speaking with him, if it worsens to please seek medical attention to ensure it is not a concern. Also you can be reminded how love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all thing Don't under estimate the power of believing in hope and endurance. But do not allow yourself to be in a place where you are spiritually, emotionally or physically harmed. Always remember to help each other. Let him also know that you bear all and believe all things regarding marraige. Let him be reminded regarding his responsibility.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.
Finally, we encourage you to continue praying fervently for your husband and your marriage as per the admonition in James 5:16 WEB "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."
Trust in the Lord, and remember that He is faithful. Keep believing that God is working in your situation, and hold on to the promises in His word.