Dear Anonymous, we understand your feelings for this woman, but we must first align our desires with God's will and His word. The Bible tells us, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This doesn't mean she has to be perfect, but it does mean that she should be a fellow believer in Christ, so that you can both strive towards godliness together.
We must also remember that God's design for relationships is clear. If you are pursuing a romantic relationship, it should be with the intention of marriage, as the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18).
However, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, so that you can have eternal life and a personal relationship with God.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your will to be done in this situation. We pray that You would guide ### and this woman, that they would both come to know You more deeply. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You would make a way, that their relationship would be a testimony of Your love and grace. But above all, we pray that they would both seek Your kingdom first, trusting that all other things will be added to them (Matthew 6:33). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will in this situation, trusting that He knows what is best for you. "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 WEB).
