We understand your situation and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for your faith and for seeking God's will in your life. It's important to remember that God hears our prayers and acts according to His will and timing.
In this situation, it's crucial to align your desires with God's word. The Bible teaches us to honor our parents and their guidance, as seen in Ephesians 6:1-2 WEB: "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise." Additionally, it is important that both families are in agreement and supportive of the relationship, especially within the context of marriage.
Regarding your past relationship, it's clear that you both shared a deep affection for each other. However, it's important to note that any romantic relationship at this stage should be focused on preparing for marriage, rather than just boyfriend and girlfriend culture which is common in the world. Additionally, it is important to remain pure and honor God with your bodies, as seen in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 WEB: "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor."
As for your question on whether to move on or keep waiting, we advise you to trust in God's timing and will. It's possible that God allowed this separation for a purpose, and He may have someone else in mind for you. Remain faithful and continue to seek God's guidance in prayer and Bible reading. I Corinthians 7:32-34 advises Christians to be careful with romantic relationships before marriage. "But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking Your will for her life. Lord, we ask that You guide her steps and reveal to her Your plans for her future. If it is Your will for her to reunite with her former boyfriend in a marriage relationship, we pray that You soften the hearts of both families and bring unity. If not, we ask that You help her to move forward, trusting in Your perfect plan.
Help her to remain pure and focused on You, drawing strength from Your Word. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words of Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: "'For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" Trust in God's plan for your life, and He will direct your paths as you commit your ways to Him, with the Bible as your guide.