Wife's infidelity

[Geen Yeung]

Suffering from the torment and pain of my wife's (Aviva) infidelity and lack of remorse. Her narcissistic behaviour has really taken ahold of her spirit and soul and I can no longer recognize the person I married. Her persistence to continue this affair yet wanting to remain married on paper for her own selfish reasons of still being able to see our son Sammy and to still be supported financially and even emotionally when she seeks my advice. When I have asked her for comfort and emotional support I am immediately rejected and always told that I'm too much or too toxic or suck it up and I'm to blame (tell tales of a narcissist) ...even though she knowingly hurts me, it makes this ordeal and rejection so much more painful. I am pleading to God to perform some miracle in my life to resume normalcy. I pray to no longer dread waking up in the morning. I pray for the day to come when I can look forward to tomorrow and plan for happy future and of things to come. I pray for God to give me the strength to persevere through this absolutely heartbreaking event my life. I pray that if divorce is imminent that my son and I will remain unscathed and I pray for Aviva to realize the pain and anguish she has subjected me to can parallel no other than like the death of a loved one and that she seeks redemption from God for betraying me and committing adultery. I pray for an angel to to save me and bring love back into my life; lift me up when I am too weak to carry on. Lord you have been absent in answering my prayers about my marital problems for almost 2 years, please hear and answer these humble prayers of mine. I have almost lost all hope and faith. Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand the deep pain and anguish you are experiencing, Geen, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and to guide you according to the principles of God's Word.

Firstly, let's address the issue of your wife's infidelity and narcissistic behavior. It's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also understands the pain caused by unfaithfulness and emotional abuse. Jesus Himself addressed the issue of adultery: "But I tell you that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28 WEB) and "Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce, but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery." (Matthew 19:9 WEB)

You've mentioned that Aviva is persistent in her affair while wanting to remain married for selfish reasons. This is not the godly behavior expected in a marriage. A godly wife is described in Proverbs 31, where she is a woman of noble character, who brings her husband good, not harm, all the days of her life.

Let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Geen to You, asking for Your divine comfort and strength in this time of immense pain. Lord, You know the heartache he is experiencing, and You understand the depth of his despair. We pray that You would intervene in this situation, soften Aviva's heart, and bring her to a place of repentance and redemption. Bring conviction upon her, Lord, and open her eyes to see the pain she has caused.

Father, we also pray for Geen's peace and healing. Help him to trust in You, even in this dark time. Remind him of Your love and faithfulness, and that You have a plan for his life. "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28 WEB)

We also pray that Geen will lean on You and not lose hope or faith. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, because You care for him. (1 Peter 5:7 WEB)

Lastly, Geen, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. (John 14:6 WEB) Continue to seek Him, trust Him, and know that He loves you deeply.

As for the angel you mentioned, remember that our help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. (Psalm 121:2 WEB) Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time.

Stay strong in the Lord, Geen. We are praying for you and your family.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend. We can only imagine the turmoil and pain you're going through. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're lifting you up in prayer.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God sees your pain. He knows the depth of your heartache, and He's right there with you. In Psalm 34:18, we read, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Trust that He's working even in this difficult situation.

We've been praying for you and Aviva. We're asking God to soften her heart, to bring her to a place of repentance, and to help her understand the gravity of her actions. We're also praying for you, that you would find strength and peace in this storm. Remember, God is your refuge and strength, always ready to help you in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you both. Trust in the Lord, and lean on Him. He's got this.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[JVMurray]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you have shared your heartrending burden with us, and we are truly grateful for the privilege of praying with you during this challenging time. We have been lifting up your situation, pleading for God's intervention and mercy, and asking for His comfort and strength to sustain you.

If you have seen any signs of God moving in your circumstances, we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. It would encourage us all and serve as a testament to God's faithfulness. If your wife's heart has not yet softened, and you continue to feel the immense pain of her actions, please do not hesitate to share an update. We want to persist in praying for you, your wife Aviva, and your son Sammy.

We have been praying specifically for God to bring conviction to Aviva's heart, for her to realize the deep pain she has caused, and for her to seek God's redemption. We have also been asking God to protect you and Sammy from further heartache and to grant you both unshakable peace and strength.

In addition, we have been praying for God to send someone to support and encourage you during this trial, someone who can help bear your burdens and bring love and light back into your life.

Please know that we are here for you, standing in agreement with you for God's will to be done in your life and in your marriage. Do not lose hope or faith, for God is faithful, and He cares deeply for you and your family. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, even when it feels like He is silent. He is working, even in the quiet.

In Jesus Name: We are praying Psalm 34:18 over you, “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” We are asking God to be close to you right now, to comfort you, and to save you from this crushing spirit of grief and pain. We are praying for His healing and restoration in your life and in your marriage, and we are believing for a miracle. Stay strong in the Lord, and remember that He loves you more than you could ever imagine.