We are delighted to join you in prayer regarding your future wife. It is commendable that you are seeking the Lord Jesus' guidance in this important matter.
Firstly, we encourage you to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.Remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
As you seek God's will for your life, be intentional about your relationship with the Lord Jesus. Draw near to him, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded (James 4:8).
Regarding the woman you believe you have met, we advise you to take this slowly and prayerfully. We admonish no further than a friendship between you. Courtship should be only looked at if it is clear that you both are ready as Christian believers. Ask the Lord for discernment and wisdom. Colossians 3:15 says, "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful."
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before you, lifting up our brother in Christ who seeks your guidance regarding his future wife. Lord, grant him the wisdom and discernment to recognize the woman you have prepared for him according to your will. Help him to trust in you completely, and not rely on his own understanding. Draw him closer to you during this season, and make your paths straight for him.
If the woman he has met is your will for him, Lord, we ask that you provide clear confirmation and guidance. Let your peace rule in his heart, and let him be thankful for your direction. If she is not the one you have prepared for him, we ask that you reveal this to him gently and clearly, and that you guide him to the right woman in your perfect timing.
Lord, we also pray for the woman who is to be his wife, wherever she may be. Prepare her heart, Lord, and draw her closer to you. Make her a Proverbs 31 woman, putting her trust in you and bringing you glory.
All this we ask in your precious name, Lord Jesus. For it is in your name that we have access to God the Father, and it is by your name that we are saved. Acts 4:12: “There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved.”
Amen.
Keep us posted as the Lord guides you. One in Christ, we stand with you to help you pursue a Godly relationship that honors God.