Wife kicked me out of my house

[Xenola]

I’m all set to leave in the morning, I’m a little scared but I don’t know what else to do. We’ve been fighting for years. I find her to be controlling and sometimes abusive. She says I don’t love her anymore which is somewhat true. We often fight about how much she disciplines our adopted 13 daughter who I think is a great kid. We need Gods help because we have failed ourselves.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the trials you're facing in your marriage, Xenola. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His will for your life. Remember, God hates divorce, as Malachi 2:16 says for the man who does not like divorce, and Jesus says in Matthew 19:8, For your hardness of heart, Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

Firstly, let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother Xenola. Lord, You see the turmoil he's facing in his marriage, the pain, the confusion. We pray, Lord, that You would intervene, that You would bring healing and restoration. Guide Xenola as he prepares to leave, and grant him wisdom and courage. Soften his wife's heart, Lord, and bring conviction to both of them. We pray for their daughter as well Jesus, Christ. We ask Jesus, in come into their hearts and restore the love, grace, and mercy that only You can provide. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Xenola, it's important to remember the sanctity of marriage. Hebrews 13:4 states

Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
Concerning the disputes about your daughter, it's crucial to find a balance between discipline and love, as Ephesians 6:4 instructs

You fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and admonition of the Lord

It's commendable that you're trying to protect your daughter, but remember to do so with Godly love and wisdom.

Regarding your wife's claim that you don't love her anymore, let's consider 1 Corinthians 13:4-7:

Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, 5 doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not easily provoked, thinks no evil; 6 doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

There seems to be a need to discuss and address any abuse. This is wrong and should not continue. Physical abuse with pain inflicted on the body, harsh words, name calling, are all sins against God and among other things defined as unwholesome talk that is prohibited in

Ephesians 4:29 "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." This allows wrong thoughts, speech, and actions to possibly create wrong actions.

Marriage is designed to be with only one spouse of the opposite sex and please do not anyone contradict this or be deceived, we do not encourage same sex marriage, sex outside of marriage, or any other sin against God our Holy Father.

As you prepare to leave, consider Matthew 5:44:

But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,
These words Jesus speaks after the parallel OT verses that say "love your neighbor, and hate your enemy." So let's be clear, just because your wife has feelings against you does not mean you should get upset. While we address this, it's important to note that the command of Jesus is clear that we are to love all others, which now includes all others as they come against you. We must be able to agape' (Greek) other, which simply means to love others through actions, particularly helpful actions. This is exactly how Xenola must respond, regardless of whether he would be described as the enemy or not. We are not to let the sun go down while we are still angry as Ephesians 4:26 says: "Be angry, (is a command, means when you get angry,) but do not' sin.: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, (very specifically says get the anger and sin out of your life before the day is done.)

Lastly, remember that God is faithful, and He will be with you through this storm. Psalm 34:17-18 says:

The righteous cry out. The Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit

Stand firm in your faith, and do not leave your faith and the commandments of God behind as you prepare to walk out of the house. Pursue God's will and pray unceasingly, following I Thessalonians 5. Continue to pray in true faith, expecting the result you want from God's Holy Spirit. Gather with you Bible and other necessary belongings as you leave to prepare for an immediate spiritual battle which is now in your life. In every way, walk and allow God to lead you, with his help through every step of the way, to grant you a successful separation for his benefit. Gather with you Bible and belongings as you leave. Things are not looking great for the marriage, but it is not entirely without forgiveness and hope.

Lastly, Jesus Christ is your only answer. There is no way to solve this without true repentance before God, confessing your sins to Him and asking His forgiveness. The Jesus alone is the way to God the Father. John 16:23 says, "Most assuredly, I tell you, whatever you may ask the Father in My name, He will give it to you." This is because of the full grace and mercy that Jesus gave us when he died on the cross to save us in our sins. Thank you for submitting your requests.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, brother. It's tough, but remember, God is always by your side. Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we lift up our brother, Xenola, to you today. Lord, you see the pain and confusion he's facing. We ask, Lord, that you soften his wife's heart, bring conviction to both of them, and guide Xenola as he leaves. Help him to love as Jesus loves, even in this difficult time. We pray for their daughter too, Lord. Bring healing, restoration, and Your love into their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Xenola, it's important to remember that God hates divorce, but He loves you and your family. He wants the best for you all. As you prepare to leave, remember Matthew 5:44, "Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." Let's keep praying and trusting in God's plan.

 

[SrvntWarrior]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.