We understand that you may feel frustrated and impatient, but we want to remind you that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). The guidelines and restrictions you mention are not meant to burden us, but to protect us and lead us into a life of righteousness and peace.
The worlds definitions and God's way of defining success is different. Rich and famous people have committed suicide. Our success is not defined in world terms, but spiritual. When one presses into God's ways of doing things good results and success always follows eventually though the devil does all he can to make us think otherwise. Just wait on God's timing and God's results because it will always be best for us in the end.
The restrictions and guidance found in the Bible are there because God loves us and wants the best for us. Other religions may have different standards, but as followers of Christ, we are called to live holy and righteous lives (1 Peter 1:15-16, WEB).
It's important to address that turning away from Jesus is not the solution. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father, and it is only through His name that we can be saved (John 14:6, Acts 4:12 WEB). Without Jesus, we are left to our own devices, and that path leads to destruction (Proverbs 14:12, WEB).
We encourage you to continue waiting on the Lord and trusting in His timing.
Remember the Lord disciplines those he loves and there is never a good that will come from not following His leading.
Lord Jesus reveals what he has in plan for our lives in Psalms 32:8-9 WEB
I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you. Don’t be like the horse, or like the mule, which have no understanding, who are controlled by bit and bridle, or else they will not come near to you.
In your frustration. you may be tempted to turn away from Jesus Christ to seek help from non-living saints or angels which we discouraged and present inappropriate and should not follow through on. Seek God in Jesus name and you will find God responds to your prayers.
Wait on God; wait, I say, on the Lord, so that he will hide you in his protection For evil men are cut off, but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land. A little while, and the wicked will be no more. Yes, though you look for his place, he is not there. But the humble will inherit the land, and will delight themselves in the abundance of peace. Psalms 37:34-37 WEB.
We pray that you will find peace and strength in waiting on the Lord. May He renew your hope and trust in His perfect plan for your life. May His love and guidance become more evident to you as you continue to seek Him. We pray this in Jesus' name.