Dexter2020, we understand your frustration and the questions you're grappling with. Firstly, let's address the core issue here: trusting God fully with your life and your desires, including your desire for a wife and a stable job.
Jesus commands us to Love the Lord our God with all of our hearts, all of our mind, all of our soul, and all of our strength. Cordially, giving Jesus 100% service is not merely a suggestion, but a commandment. This is the greatest commandment and the other is like it which is Love your neighbor as ourself.. We are to keep Holy the Sabbath which is rest in Jesus Name that we might enter into it. Keeping the Sabbath is symbolic of our complete dependence on Jesus for our sustenance, livelihood, well-being, life, and everything. By resting in Jesus you will allow Jesus to work in your behalf for all your needs. We must present our bodies holy and acceptable. Therefore, giving 100% service means trusting God with every aspect of our lives, including our relationships and careers. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. Additionally the last verse in this chapter promises this if we are righteous in keeping God's commands as Jesus also said "If you love me, keep my commands".
Regarding relationships, God's design is for a man and a woman to be joined in holy matrimony. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh" Genesis 2:24 WEB. It's crucial to trust God's timing and His ways. He knows the deepest desires of your heart, and He wants to give you the best. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, And He wants you to trust him fully and without expectation of tangible evidence of his work at this time. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart". Cathc this, sincerely, God knows what we need before we even ask. Part of our requirement is to follow the law of our government and under our new covenant covenant of grace, to seek Jesus.
Now address the issue of your job. God provides for our needs according to His riches and glory, and when he does, we must be content with what he provides as he grants it to us. Consider the lilies of the field and how they toil not, yet Solomon in all his glory was not adorned as one of these . "Butseek first God’s Kingdom, and God's righteousness then all of these things will be added to you" Matthew 6:33 WEB. We will seek God's will together with you in Jesus Name. . Also how may God work when we are doing our best efforts in our own strength and understanding? If God is not willing, We shall not succeed,
Now, let's address the issue of your prayer not mentioning the name of Jesus. It's essential to pray in Jesus' name, as it is through Him that we have access to the Father. "Jesus said, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me'" John 14:6 WEB. If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Be born from above of the spirit and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead. That if thou shalt confess.. It is only through His name that we can be saved. "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 WEB .
Let's pray together:
Father, we give thanks for Dexter2020 and the desires You've placed in his heart. We repent if he has done things or learning things in any way that have not been honoring to You. We ask You Lord to help Dexter2020 surrender everything to Jesus. , including his career and his desire for a wife. Help his unbelief with your promise that you will never leave him nor forsake him and all of the promises that are our rights in Christ Jesus. Work on HIS behalf Lord as he delights in Jesus, loves Jesus, meditated on your Word day and night like a fruitful tree, and rests in the finished work of Jesus on the cross. Teach him to live Holy and be set apart. Lord, give Dexter2020 patience and contentment as he waits on Your perfect timing for his marriage and career. For He who began a good work in Dexter2020 and us all have faith possible you will finish it in Christ Jesus. We Asking that Dexter2020 trust You, Father, with all his heart, and lean not on his own understanding. Help him to acknowledge You in all his ways, so if it is your will Lord that You will make his paths straight. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.