why Jesus does not need a helping hand but kept delaying my relationship

[Dexter2020]

why Jesus does not need a helping hand but kept delaying my relationship and he know I dun want to be single forever but now am single and break all those relationship which I find can work out but he blocked it. How long do I need to wait before you can guide me to the right women. Why it is after 3 months and break off some even earlier why are you doing this to me and said that you love me. Don't you know my needs or why are you denying it or do you need me to be very old to fulfill my needs.

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, first, we want to address a concern. Your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or even end with 'in Jesus Name.' It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). For I am not ashamed of the Good News of Christ, because it is the power of God for salvation for everyone who believes; for the Jew first, and also for the Greek. For in it is revealed God's righteousness from faith to faith. As it is written, "But the righteous shall live by faith." (Romans 1:16,17 WEB) . So we will pray to God in the name of Jesus Christ. and encourage you to always do the same.

We understand that you're feeling frustrated and impatient regarding your relationship status. However, the term "relationship," in the context of serious dating between men and women who are Christian Believers, should be better understood as "courtship" and not just "boyfriends and/or girlfriends" and does not include sex. It should be a direct effort toward marriage (1 Corinthians 7:9 WEB).

We must first come before God with a heart of thanksgiving and praise, acknowledging His goodness and sovereignty. Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dexter2020. We thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness in his life. We acknowledge that Your ways are higher than our ways, and Your thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9WEB) .

Dexter2020, God knows your heart (Psalm 139:1-4WEB) and does understand your desires. We need not think that God does not know what we need (Matthew 6:8WEB), but we are to have the mind of Christ (Philippians 2:5WEB) and be content (Philippians 4:11WEB).

We must address the issue claiming that God does not allow for Dexter2020 any relationships as if God doesn't know our needs. God loves you and wants the best for you. If you are living according to God's Word and are on good terms with God, God will meet all your needs according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19WEB). Just be careful what you ask for. God is not a Genie, and we need to pray in the name of Jesus (John 14:14WEB). Be specific. Be trustworthy. When asking God, make sure the requests contribute to God's glory, and not self-gain (Hosea 4:8WEB). Do not think about earthly gain, but what in God's will is best for your situation. Just because there is only one other unmarried Christian lady in your immediate area does not mean that people are possessed by demons which are blocking your advances. Remember not to accept demon possession lightly, only evil attacks that cannot be explained by anything else (Romans 1:21WEB).

Dexter, know now we must address one more issue to submit to the Holy Spirit; you should be having sexual relations with your girlfriend before or outside of marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2WEB).

We rebuke you not to fornicate even in your courtship that is to be performed in purity. Do not just think, "everything but...". Also, don't complicate your issues with a lot of legalism such as saying that you will not marry anyone but her, that you are basically married, that you are married in your mind but are waiting a year before having sex, that you are married by "common law" because you are living together, or anything else. Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14-15WEB).

Now let us address the men reading this answer that are not Dexter2020. This is a very popular question, and we are living in a time where instant gratification is the name of the game, but remember 7 days in the presence of the Lord is only 1 day on earth (Psalm 90:4, 2 Peter 3:8WEB). Nowadays there is currently an imbalance between single Christian women and men, so good men that are believing Christian men are hard to find. God has created us individually with a purpose, and He is faithful to fulfill His promises in our lives. God wants to ensure you are truly ready for God to fulfill your desires. We are Jesus' Beloved (Ephesians 1:6WEB) , the body of Christ, His church (Ephesians 5:29-30WEB) (our ferminist ladies, we cannot be fooled - the church is feminine (Ephesians 5:22-24)).

We do not want you to be ignorant, brothers, concerning those who have fallen asleep, so that you don't grieve like the rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus. For this we tell you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left to the coming of the Lord, will in no way precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with God's trumpet. The dead in Christ will rise first, then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air. So we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore comfort one another with these words.

Now concerning the times and the seasons, brothers, you need not have anything written to you. For you yourselves know well that the day of the Lord comes like a thief in the night. For when they are saying, "Peace and safety," then sudden destruction will come on them, like birth pains on a pregnant woman; and they will in no way escape. But you, brothers, aren't in darkness, that the day should overtake you like a thief. You are all children of light, and children of the day. We don't belong to the night, nor to darkness, so then let's not sleep, as the rest do, but let's watch and be sober. For those who sleep, sleep in the night, and those who are drunk are drunk in the night. But let us, since we belong to the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and, for a helmet, the hope of salvation. For God didn't appoint us to wrath, but to the obtaining of salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, who died for us, that, whether we wake or sleep, we should live together with him. Therefore exhort one another, and build each other up, even as you also do

Dexter2020, do not fall asleep and become not sober. Live in the hope of salvation.

Finally, Dexter2020, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and remain faithful to His will. Be willing to wait, to be ready, and to seek His righteousness. God will accomplish His will according to His timing and His plan. We should not compromise the Word of God or flee when God is telling us to hold our ground (1 Corinthians 16:13WEB).

Our Heavenly Father, we ask that You guide Dexter to the right woman and help him not fornicate during their courtship but for the courtship to end in full pleasure in Godly marriage. Help him to wait on your timing and on your will. Please bring your woman into Dexter's life in Jesus' name, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey Dexter,

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share some more thoughts with you. We know it can be tough waiting, but remember, God's timing is always perfect. He sees the bigger picture and knows what's best for us, even when we can't see it ourselves.

It's like when we're planting a seed. We can't rush the growth process, can we? We have to trust that if we nurture it with love and care, it will grow in God's time. The same goes for our relationships. We need to trust that God will bring the right person into our lives at the right time.

We also want to encourage you to focus on growing in your relationship with God while you wait. Use this time to deepen your faith, serve others, and become the best version of yourself. That way, when God does bring that special someone into your life, you'll be ready to love and honor them as God intended.

And hey, don't forget to have fun and enjoy this season of your life too! God wants us to find joy in every stage of our journey. So, keep your heart open, trust in God's plan, and let's keep praying together, okay?

Stay strong, brother. We're in this together.

In Jesus' Name,

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Skewrick]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Prayerangel1967]

why Jesus does not need a helping hand but kept delaying my relationship and he know I dun want to be single forever but now am single and break all those relationship which I find can work out but he blocked it. How long do I need to wait before you can guide me to the right women. Why it is after 3 months and break off some even earlier why are you doing this to me and said that you love me. Don't you know my needs or why are you denying it or do you need me to be very old to fulfill my needs.

Sometimes God blocked it if they are not right for you. However sometimes Satan also tries to block something that is God ordained. God wants you in a happy marriage and Satan wants you to give up on that idea. It may be better to join some church activities where you can serve it find hobbies to meet people. God said to seek after God's kingdom first..then he will add to your life all your needs. I don't know if they have many Christian social groups..it's better than the internet which half the people on there are lying. Praying God puts the right person in your path as you serve in His kingdom and meet many people through that. God bless you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you concerning your relationship status. We have been fervently petitioning God on your behalf, asking for His guidance and wisdom in this season of singleness.

If you have seen any signs of God's working in your life regarding this, we would be delighted to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, we want to assure you that we are still here, ready to continue praying with you and for you.

We understand that waiting can be difficult, but we trust in God's perfect timing. His delays are not denials, but rather opportunities for growth and preparation. We pray that God will give you the strength and patience to endure this waiting period, and that He will reveal His purpose for this season to you.

Remember, God knows your needs even better than you do. He loves you immensely and is always working for your good. We pray that you will find comfort and peace in His love, and that He will guide you to the right person at the right time.

Let us continue to seek God's will together, trusting in His promises and resting in His love. We are here for you, praying with you and for you in Jesus Name.