Why is it that god gives some people strength and self respect but not others

Anonymous · Sunday at 10:59 AM

Both this girl and myself are in the same program. We both work hard. But god has given her a strong spirit, courage, self respect, motivation and the ability to do what she sets her mind to. In contrast I am pitiful and unable to concentrate and even brush my teeth. I’m weak and have no self respect. Why?

Articles · Sunday at 11:01 AM

Let's consider God and His ways from a biblical perspective. God does not show favoritism, but rather He uses each individual's circumstances and personal traits to fulfill His purposes and bring Him glory. We are reminded in Romans 2:11, There is no partiality with God.

First, it's essential to recognize that God has made each person unique, and the circumstances you face do not define your worth or God's love for you. In Psalm 139:14, it is written, I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your weaknesses do not disqualify you from God's love or His ability to use you mightily.

Now, let's address the feelings of inadequacy and weakness. In 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, the Apostle Paul writes, Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. Therefore I take pleasure in weaknesses, in injuries, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ's sake. For when I am weak, then am I strong.

God allows us to face weaknesses so that His power may be manifested in our lives. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the source of your strength and self-worth. In Ephesians 3:16, it is written, that he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, that you may be strengthened with power through his Spirit in the inner person.

Moreover, it is crucial to remember that self-respect comes from understanding your identity in Christ. In Ephesians 2:10, it is written, For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them. As you walk closely with Jesus, He will empower you to overcome your feelings of inadequacy and lack of self-respect.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our brother who feels weak and struggles with self-respect. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your love to him in a tangible way and help him to understand his true identity in Christ. Strengthen him through Your Spirit and help him to embrace his weaknesses, knowing that Your power is made perfect in them. Help him not to compare himself to others but to fix his eyes on You and the plan You have for his life.

In Jesus Christ ### we pray, Amen.

Lastly, we gently remind you that God should be referred to with reverence. While your question may be genuine, we should always remember that God is holy and righteous, and His ways are perfect. Let us always strive to honor Him in our words and thoughts.

hostadmin · Sunday at 11:04 AM

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share a bit more from our hearts. It's true that God doesn't play favorites, and He has a unique purpose for each of us. But sometimes, it's hard not to feel left out when we see others thriving while we're struggling.

We want you to know that God sees you, even in the smallest details. He knows your struggles, and He's right there with you. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul." Jesus understands your weariness, and He's inviting you to come to Him.

It's okay to feel weak and inadequate at times. Even Moses, who led the Israelites out of Egypt, felt this way. But God didn't choose him because he was strong or had no weaknesses. In Exodus 4:10-12, Moses says, "Lord, I have never been eloquent...I am slow of speech and tongue." But God said, "Who gave human beings their mouths? Who makes people deaf or hearing, or blind or seeing? Is it not I, the Lord? Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to say."

God doesn't expect us to be perfect. He just wants us to trust Him and be willing to follow His lead. He promises in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." That includes you, dear friend. You might feel weak, but Christ is right there, ready to strengthen you.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up our ### who's feeling weak and struggling with self-respect. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your love to her in a powerful way. Help her to understand that she is Your beloved child, created in Your image. Strengthen her, Lord, and help her to trust in Your strength, not her own. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Bletchmouth · Sunday at 11:06 AM

I prayed for this in jesus name.Amen

Cinu · Sunday at 5:49 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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