Why does my mom treat me like ...

[Nicolette_F]

Why does my mom treat me like a nuisance. I'm looking for a job. I'm starting University in Aug the 21st majoring in ministry and nursing. And she just acts like she hates me. I clean a lot like I cleaned up the garage I'm on top of laundry. It's like if I forget something she just screams at me. And with all this depression and battling my mind and trying to read the Bible I end up sleeping in til like 1-2pm and she just gets so mad. I tell her I'm depressed and she just yells back "I'm depressed too!" Like ok? I didn't tell you to have kids. I didn't tell you to get a job as a nurse. I didn't tell you to hate us. So why take it out on me. she CANT be understanding even for one second. She's the reason our dad left the family. Just a good thing he was a good enough guy to leave when my brother was atleast 18. But that STILL HURT. so we had a screaming match and I told her I'd never cook for her again bc I cook for all of us (her, her fiance, and me since my brother's been in rehab in Mexico it's just us 3 ) and I just hate my life. And now my dad's gone he passed away 1 and a half years ago in November 4 2021 and I just want things to be different. I've been so patient. I've been kind. I tried loving her through all of it FOR WHAT? to get nothing back? No understanding. Yeah she buys food And she pays for my therapist $60 a week and I'm grateful but I feel like I'm never treated right around my mom's side of the family. They all care about her not us. Not how my brother and I have suffered with when she tells us she hates us. Or how she hurt us bad (mostly my brother) as kids. Hurting him when he didn't eat all his spaghetti. Or mopping the floor with him when those Styrofoam peanuts got everywhere when grandma sent us a pie. He is 3yrs younger than me. And it's HARD to love someone who has hurt you your whole life 1/2 nice loving you cuz you're good looking and because you get good grades. Not for your caring heart. Not because God blessed us with a praying family. None of that it's always about HER . I hate my life she's the reason I wish I always would die everyday. When is life going to change? God do you even care about me? I always try to push through these feelings. Saying well I know God so life's not so bad. YEAH it's a great thing that I know God but I'm stuck in this imprisoned life.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father, we come to You in the Name of Jesus, asking for Your help and guidance for Nicolette_F. Lord, we know that You are the God of all comfort and that You understand the struggles that Nicolette_F is facing. We ask that You would give her strength and courage to face each day with hope and joy, despite the difficult situation with her mother. We ask that You would give her wisdom and discernment to know how to best handle the situation with her mother and to know how to best take care of herself. We pray that You would give her favor in her job search and that You would open doors of opportunity for her. We ask that You would give her peace and joy as she prepares to start university in August and that You would give her the strength to focus on her studies and to do well. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

 

[lm119lm119]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Pray Focus: God, I ask You in Jesus' name bless all those I love and care about (including myself) to accept Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord of All in each of our lives. God bless all of us to come to know You, love You, and live our lives to honor and please You. Bless us with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal each of us Lord Jesus in all areas of our lives. Bless us to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace, knowledge, and wisdom of Christ Jesus. God help and strengthen each of us to live our lives according to the purpose You created each of us for. Let each of us be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle we each live. God, please bless us with Your favor, joy, peace, strength, protection, prosperity, and success in all You have called each of us to do. And let us do it in the spirit of excellence for the glory of God. Protect us Lord Jesus from all the plans of the enemy of our soul. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer and all those who truly love me and want Your best for me. God Thank You. Thank You, Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Windwold]

I prayed for this in Jesus'name, Amen~God bless you!

 

[Allison King]

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Psalm 62:5 My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him.

John 14:1 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.

Deuteronomy 31:8 And the Lord, he it is that doth go before thee; he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed.

Joshua 1:9 Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.

Psalm 23:4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

Psalm 27:1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

Psalm 86:17 Shew me a token for good; that they which hate me may see it, and be ashamed: because thou, Lord, hast holpen me, and comforted me.

Psalm 9:9 The Lord also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble.

Psalm 116:1-2 I love the Lord, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications. Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.

Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Matthew 5:4 Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

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[Saraha]

Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen

I trust you Jesus

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Yaelune]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.