Why does god hate me?

[Bottomofthebottle]

I feel like god is never on my side, I never get anything I want, I work so hard and I still struggle, I’m a good person I’d be a good mom yet I still have no husband, no kids, and now even my younger siblings are having kids and I have absolutely nothing. I’m a nurturer and a healer people come to me with their problems or when they need advice. Yet, I get nothing. I have absolutely nothing to show for my 35 years on this earth. No savings, no money, no kids, no husband. I always prayed he wouldn’t give my younger siblings a baby before me and he did…he did.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Articles]

Beloved, we hear the pain and despair in your words, and we want to lift you up in prayer and truth. First, let's address the crucial question: God does not hate you. The Bible tells us, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB). God's love for you is eternal and unfailing.

It's understandable that you feel this way when you look at your circumstances, but remember, God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). What seems like a denial could be God's protection or preparation. God has a plan and a purpose for you, declared even before you were born (Jeremiah 1:5 WEB).

You mentioned that you are a nurturer and a healer, which are beautiful qualities that reflect God's heart. Yet, you feel you have nothing to show for your life. Remember, God looks at the heart, not at our achievements or possessions (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB). He values your character and the love you show to others.

Now, let's address the topics of marriage and children. It's natural to desire these things, and God has designed marriage and family to be blessings. However, they are not markers of God's favor or love. Some of the greatest servants of God in the Bible were single or barren for many years, like Paul, Jeremiah, and Hannah. God's plan for you may look different, and that's okay. Trust that He knows what's best for you (Psalm 37:4-5 WEB).

Let's pray together:

"Father, we lift up Bottomofthebottle to you. We ask that you reveal your unfailing love to her. Comfort her in her pain and disappointment. Help her to see her worth through your eyes. Give her the strength to trust in your plan and timing. If it is your will, provide her with a godly spouse and children, but more importantly, help her to find contentment and joy in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus. Remember, it is through Jesus that we have access to God. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6 WEB). If you haven't already, consider putting your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He alone can give you the peace, purpose, and fulfillment you desire.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear one. We see your heart aching, feeling forsaken, and we want you to know that's not the truth. God doesn't hate you. He loves you so much, He sent His Son Jesus to die for you, so you could have eternal life with Him.

We understand the struggle feels real when you look at your circumstances. But remember, God's ways are not our ways. He sees the bigger picture. He's got a plan and a purpose for you, even if it's not what you expected or hoped for. It could be His protection, His preparation, or maybe even His invitation to trust Him more deeply.

You're a nurturer and a healer, reflecting God's heart. Those qualities are precious, and God sees them. He looks at your heart, not just your achievements or possessions. He values who you are and the love you pour into others.

Marriage and children are beautiful blessings, but they're not marks of God's favor. Some of His greatest servants in the Bible were single or barren. God's plan for you might look different, and that's okay. Trust that He knows what's best for you.

Let's pray together:

"Dear God, we lift up this dear sister to you. We ask that you reveal your unfailing love to her. Comfort her in her pain and disappointment. Help her to see her worth through your eyes. Give her strength to trust in your plan and timing. If it's your will, provide her with a godly spouse and children, but more importantly, help her find contentment and joy in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And remember, it's through Jesus that we have access to God. If you haven't already, consider putting your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He alone can give you the peace, purpose, and fulfillment you desire.

 

[Prayerangel1967]

We're here with you, dear one. We see your heart aching, feeling forsaken, and we want you to know that's not the truth. God doesn't hate you. He loves you so much, He sent His Son Jesus to die for you, so you could have eternal life with Him.

We understand the struggle feels real when you look at your circumstances. But remember, God's ways are not our ways. He sees the bigger picture. He's got a plan and a purpose for you, even if it's not what you expected or hoped for. It could be His protection, His preparation, or maybe even His invitation to trust Him more deeply.

You're a nurturer and a healer, reflecting God's heart. Those qualities are precious, and God sees them. He looks at your heart, not just your achievements or possessions. He values who you are and the love you pour into others.

Marriage and children are beautiful blessings, but they're not marks of God's favor. Some of His greatest servants in the Bible were single or barren. God's plan for you might look different, and that's okay. Trust that He knows what's best for you.

Let's pray together:

"Dear God, we lift up this dear sister to you. We ask that you reveal your unfailing love to her. Comfort her in her pain and disappointment. Help her to see her worth through your eyes. Give her strength to trust in your plan and timing. If it's your will, provide her with a godly spouse and children, but more importantly, help her find contentment and joy in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And remember, it's through Jesus that we have access to God. If you haven't already, consider putting your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He alone can give you the peace, purpose, and fulfillment you desire.

Hey 35 isn't old..you can still find the love of your life..just dont become bitter and it will happen.Praying you don't give up in Jesus name..many people on here are feeling sick to the point of dying..your a healer..you are a blessing!!!!

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

I feel like god is never on my side, I never get anything I want, I work so hard and I still struggle, I’m a good person I’d be a good mom yet I still have no husband, no kids, and now even my younger siblings are having kids and I have absolutely nothing. I’m a nurturer and a healer people come to me with their problems or when they need advice. Yet, I get nothing. I have absolutely nothing to show for my 35 years on this earth. No savings, no money, no kids, no husband. I always prayed he wouldn’t give my younger siblings a baby before me and he did…he did.

Our God of love does not hate.
May our Heavenly Father make you to prosper physically, mentally, and spiritually, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.