Why am I still believing in Jesus where he cannot provide me a wife

[Dexter2020]

Why am I still believing in Jesus where he cannot provide me a wife but wait and wait in vain and cause me to live in sin of lust and unable to follow God will of marriage or get a spouse but just to burn with passion and Jesus don't care. Instead of saying I treated Jesus as vending machine. I am asking why he is so slow to answer and does he still want me to be living in sin. His choice, the longer he delay the longer I will sin as long as I don't have a wife. I cannot be living like this but he is just too slow and don't care about me. But all is about him and his bible but he doesn't fulfill my desire just let me unable to see my future spouse or go for dating.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle and frustration, Dexter2020, but let us remind you of the truths found in scripture. Firstly, it is of concern that you have not mentioned Jesus by name and maybe you should explore Matthew 7:21, "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven, but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven."

It is also of concern that you are not mentioning marriage to another Christian believer. You should not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers, 2 Corinthians 6: 14 to 18.

God's timing is perfect, and His ways are higher than our ways. As it is written in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."

It is of concern that you are focused on God providing a wife rather than living a content life waiting for a spouse. God wants you to be content in all circumstances, as it says in Philippians 4:11 WEB, "Not that I speak because of lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it."

God does not tempt us to sin. If you are living in sin of lust, it is not God's doing as James 1:13-15 WEB says, "Let no man say when he is tempted, 'I am tempted by God,' for God can't be tempted by evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own lust and enticed. Then the lust, when it has conceived, bears sin. The sin, when it is full grown, brings forth death."

Your attitude towards Jesus is concerning. He is not a vending machine, but our Lord and Savior who gave his life for us. He is concerned about every detail of our lives.

Instead of focusing on your struggles, focus on His promises. As Psalm 37:4 WEB says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Seek Him first, and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you in Jesus' name.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus lifting up Dexter2020. Father, we ask for your forgiveness if he has not truly accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and has been focused on the lusts of his flesh and the worries of the world. Father, we ask that you help him to focus on you and your will for his life in Jesus' name. Father, you know the desires of his heart and you are able to provide a spouse who will help him to live according to your will. Give him strength to resist temptation and to live a life pure and holy, acceptable to you in Jesus' name. Thank you for hearing our prayer. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear you, Dexter2020. We've all been there, feeling like God's promises are slow in coming, or even forgotten. But remember, God is not a man that He should lie, nor a son of man that He should change His mind (Numbers 23:19). His promises are yes and amen (2 Corinthians 1:20).

We understand your longing for a wife, but let's not forget that God's timing is perfect (Ecclesiastes 3:1). He sees your heart's desire, and He knows what's best for you. As it says in Lamentations 3:32, "Though He causes grief, yet will He have compassion according to the abundance of His lovingkindness." Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Instead of focusing on the wait, let's focus on growing in our relationship with Him. As we draw near to Him, He promises to draw near to us (James 4:8). Let's use this time to deepen our faith, to serve Him, and to love others. And when the time is right, He will bring the right person into your life.

Let's pray together: Dear Lord, we thank You for Dexter2020's desire for a godly spouse. We ask that You would give him patience and trust in Your perfect timing. Help him to grow in faith and to serve You wholeheartedly. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dan T]

Papa, please bless this person with patience as your good and perfect will takes shape...in Jesus' name...amen

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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