When we started dating four years ago, I thought ...

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When we started dating four years ago, I thought I had found "the one." He made me so happy, and made me feel so loved and appreciated. In those four years, we have been through so much together. But now when I think about our future together, the future that I was so certain of, I am confused and unsure that this is what I want. He has done big things and made sacrifices that show me he loves me. But I can't remember the last time he told me he loves me. I feel virtually no emotional or physical love from him any more. He doesn't talk to me about anything in his life and doesn't care to hear about mine. He acts cold toward me, and sometimes ignores me like I don't even exist. It's hard because I love him so much and just want to give all my love to him and feel that love in return. It is so simple.. I just want to be loved. I was so convinced he was 'the one.' I want him to be so badly. I want things to get better and go back to the way he used to treat me. But I don't see a happy future with the way things are going, and that breaks my heart. I'm scared to end things because so much has been invested in these years, and what if he is the one? What if things will get better? Or am I meant to be with someone else? Please pray that I will gain complete clarity and strength in this situation, that I will know what to do, and who I am meant to be with. Thank you for your prayers and for taking the time to look through my request. God bless.
 
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Holy God and loving Father, I consciously place my fears, worries, anxieties, and burdens in your hands. I know that I have so little power to change the outcome of these events and I trust that you will work what is pleasing to you, and best for me, out of these situations. Forgive me for my anxious thoughts and for letting my own worry become an idol that robs you of my full trust. Strengthen and empower me to trust you more by the power and presence of your Spirit. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen
 
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Pray for God to tell you what is really going on here and then listen to whatever God tells you to do. I know all too well what it is like for a man to grow cold on you. I also know that one of the biggest cravings of all human beings is to have a spouse with whom they can share their lives with -- Not just the big things, but the day-to-day matters as well: How long you had to stand in line at the grocery store. Telling your love a joke somebody else told you that made you really laugh. I myself crave this kind of male companionship so badly. But I know that things can start out seeming so perfect and so promising, but then all of the sudden you start to realize maybe this man you put so many hopes in for your future has turned out not to be the One. I pray this is not the case with you. However, if it does prove to be the case, I pray that you will come to accept God's will and to realize that God sees the big picture. He and He alone knows the whys and wherefores of our lives. I pray you come to real peace no matter which way things go. I pray for you in the name of Jesus of Nazareth. Amen and amen.
 
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