What if marriage and waiting is a waste of time

[Dexter2020]

The 3 months used in the courtship , Jesus have shown me what is unequally yoked although they claimed to be Christian, who is after my money and not me and using my might I could achieve nothing because Jesus will stop it to prevent more hurt if this continues. I dun know why Christ will do like this and meet people who are scammers deceivers and old age women and all sorts of people. Now with all the experiences, I would say I would be on my own to find the people if is it equally yoked or unequally yoked. I dun care and Jesus please stop blocking it or your protection and will withhold my worship and bible reading because you dun care but just said I love you I don't even know if praying to you will do any difference and my prayers are ignored. Do I have to wait forever.

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, we understand that you're going through a difficult time and feel frustrated with your experiences in courtship and your feelings towards the Lord. Let's address your concerns together and seek God's will for your life.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). He sees the bigger picture and knows what's best for us, even when we don't understand His methods.

You've mentioned that you've encountered individuals who were not truly believers and had impure intentions. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). It's crucial to seek a spouse, another Christian believer, who shares your faith and values. God wants to protect you from harm and pain, which is why He intervenes when you're heading towards a potentially harmful situation. Even when we don't understand why God blocks us, we must trust Him.

You mentioned you don't want God's protection and would rather find people on your own, but Proverbs 3:5 serves as a warning for placing faith in your strength and decisions.
In addition, the Lord has said, 2 Chronicles 15:2 WEB The Lord IYNV is with you while you are with him. If you seek Him, He will be found by you, but, if you forsake Him, He will forsake you. Worshiping God and reading the Bible are vital aspects of a Christian's life. Withholding these things will only distance you from God and His blessings.

We'll pray for you and encourage you to keep seeking God's will for your life, even when it's difficult and confusing. Christ's hope and God's love for you is unchanging (Romans 8: 35-39 WEB) One great promise is found in John 5:14-15 WEB.

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Dexter2020. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for his life. Give him patience and peace. Help him trust in Your timing and Your ways and not be hopeless. Grant Dexter2020 the ability to release his frustrations to You with courage and joy to continue worshiping and having a deeper relationship with You. Heal and mend Dexter2020's confusion or hurt.

In Jesus' name, we pray. AMEN

Moving forward, trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life and will provide a godly spouse in His perfect timing. Continue to seek the name of Jesus continually in prayer and share your difficulties with Him. Be patient with yourself and God's timing. If you have not already, ask the Lord to forgive your sins and ask Jesus to come into your heart and be your Savior, Lord, and redeemer.

Jesus answered, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. There is no one who comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 WEB.

We encourage you to keep growing in your faith and continue to fellowship to others (not necessarily romantic relationships) of similar faiths. As productive Christians and stewards, we should not waste the time but make good use of it (1 Peter 3:7).

It is our responsibility here as witnesses to Christ to be honest with you and to make sure things are right between you and God. Christ has given us a reception in Him (Ephesians 1:6) we and He plead for you to be a witness to peace.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Dexter. We understand that waiting can be tough, especially when it feels like you're not making progress. But remember, God's timing is always perfect, even when we can't see it.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep trusting in God's plan. He sees your heart, and He knows the desires you have. He's not blocking you out of spite, but because He wants the best for you. He's protecting you, just as a loving father would protect his child from harm.

In the meantime, let's focus on growing in our relationship with Him. Keep worshipping, keep reading the Bible, and keep praying. Remember, God promises in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." He's always there, waiting for you.

Let's keep seeking Him together, Dexter. We're in this with you, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Telesysman]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Eisinus]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you shared your deeply personal struggle with us and allowed us the privilege to pray with you. We have been fervently petitioning the Lord on your behalf, asking for His guidance and comfort in your situation.

If you have seen any signs of God moving in your circumstances, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness.

However, if you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Sometimes, God's timing is different from ours, and His ways are higher than ours. Even when it feels like our prayers are not being answered, God is working behind the scenes for our good according to Romans 8:28. Please consider posting your request again, so we can continue to stand with you in prayer.

In the meantime, we pray that you will experience the peace of Jesus Christ that surpasses all understanding. We ask that God would draw you closer to Him, even in this difficult time. Remember, even when it feels like God is silent, He is still with you and loves you deeply.

As a community of believers, we are committed to walking alongside you in your journey. Let us continue to seek God's will together, trusting that He hears our prayers and acts according to His perfect will. In Jesus Name, we pray for God to bless you as you continue to seek His face through His Son, our Savior Jesus.