What if marriage and waiting is a waste of time

[Dexter2020]

I dun know what is installed for me and although Jesus showed me a vision of marriage but my experiences have taught me that I am a failure and break up after 3 months and was a fool. Will I trust Jesus just to wait in vain and now I am seeking you and praying everyday time passes does Jesus know as I must have offspring to take over the business as time passes but still single now. I am very concern Jesus what if I am not married. It is not that I dun trust you but how to trust after all the things that have happened and will I be too old and expired by just waiting in vain because of you which I wanted so badly. I had prayed and you have not answer I am sick and tired until want to give up already. If you cannot work just tell me I find other avenues.

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, we understand your concerns and anxieties about marriage and the future. It's important to remember that God's timing is perfect, and His plans are always for our good. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares Yahweh, "plans for welfare and not for calamity, to give you a future and a hope."

We need to address a few things in your request. First, it is important that you are putting your trust in Jesus Christ. It is good that you mentioned His name. Remember this verse about trusting in Him:
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Also in Psalms:
Psalm 37:3 WEB "Trust in Yahweh, and do good. Dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture."

Also, you used the phrase 'break up' and mentioned your relationship lasting for only three months. The Bible is clear that marriage is a solemn lifelong commitment and divorce is a very serious issue. Breaking up is not a Biblical way of handling marriage difficulties. This should not be done lightly or quickly and definitely not really possible in only three months. As it is written in Malachi, “For I hate divorce!” says Yahweh, the God of Israel. You should never do breaking up quickly or for trivial things. Divorce is what God hates, the dissolving of the marriage contract between a man and a woman. There are also specific Bible verses that are directed at the saved Believer in Jesus Christ that govern marriage and its sanctity that will come with dire consequences if violated. Challenge yourself to make sure all your relationships from now on are marriage focused. Dating without the goal of marriage and possibly sex before marriage is fornication which the Bible clearly says is a sin and that our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and that He resides in us. It is written:
1 Corinthians 6:18-19 WEB Flee sexual immorality! “Every sin that a man does is outside the body,” but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own.
You should look for a wife as you believe in Jesus Christ and should be looking for someone that believes in Jesus as well. It is written:
2 Corinthians 6:14-15 WEB "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? What agreement has Christ with Beliar? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?"
You should be a Christian Believer yourself and should also consider if the person you are with believes as well as these verses clearly describe.

Regarding your concern about having an offspring to take over the business, remember that God is in control of all things. His plans for you are better than any plans you may have for yourself. As the verses in Jeremiah 29:11 and Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB written above discuss.
Also this verse from Proverbs:
Proverbs 16:4 WEB Yahweh has made everything for its own end— even the wicked for the day of evil.

Waiting on the Lord is never in vain. His promises are true and we can trust Him in all things. As it is written in Isaiah 40:31, "but those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint."

Let's pray together from now on for the Lord to give you a spouse that believes in Jesus and to have a Christ centered marriage:

"Dear Jesus, we come to You right now on Dexter2020's need for a spouse to relieve his distress and to give him Hope for a Christ centered marriage. In Your Precious Name In which we can have salvation and make these requests, Lord Jesus. First of all, we need to thank You for the Grace and Mercy that You have given us through your Death and Resurrection by which we can live in faith and assurance of Salvation and Eternal Life. We praise Your Mighty Holy Name, Jesus Christ. Please reveal your Will in his life and Will for a believing wife that believes in Jesus Christ and guide Dexter2020 in your Holy Spirit covered path that recognizes Your Power and Majesty and will live for your Glory and to be a God glorifying family. The peace that passes understanding to stay on Dexter2020 as he continues his life in waiting for a Godly Believing Wife that trusts in Jesus Christ alone for Salvation and Marriage. Thank you for the gift of Marriage and use it to bring Honor and Glory to Your Name. Thank you for creating companionship for man to have a wife and woman to have a husband. All to Your Glory, in Jesus' name, amen." while waiting rest in Jesus Christ and also enjoy the gift of the Sabbath given by God to rest from your labors. It is written in Genesis 2:2 and Exodus:20-11, Genesis 2:2 "On the seventh day God finished his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made." Exodus 20:11 WEB, "For in six days Yahweh made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day; therefore Yahweh blessed the Sabbath day, and made it holy." Also Jesus speaks of our labors in trusting in Him in Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." All of this in Jesus' Precious Holy Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, Dexter. We know the uncertainty of waiting can be tough, but remember, God's timing is perfect. He sees your heart and knows your desires. It's okay to feel anxious, but let's trust that He's got this. Let's not forget the promise in Lamentations 3:22-23, "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." God's love and compassion are new every day, and His faithfulness is great.

We understand your concern about not having children to carry on your family's business. But remember, God has a unique plan for each of us. In Psalm 139:16, it's written, "Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." God knew you even before you were formed in your mother's womb, and He has a purpose for your life, with or without children.

Let's continue to pray together, "Dear Jesus, we come to You today on behalf of Dexter. We ask for Your peace to fill his heart as he waits. Help him to trust in Your perfect timing. Lord, if it's Your will, we pray for a believing wife to come into his life, someone who loves and serves You. Give him the strength and patience to wait on You, and guide him every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Eisinus]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, and we are honored that you have shared your burden with us. We understand the struggle and the doubts that have been weighing heavily on your heart regarding marriage and the future. Please know that we have been standing in agreement with you, praying for clarity, for healing from past experiences, and for God's will to be done in your life.

If you have seen even a glimpse of an answer or have found some peace, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar situations. If you are still waiting, still struggling, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want to persist in prayer with you, to support you as you seek God's face.

Remember, Jesus knows your heart and your desires. He understands your concerns about the future and the business. He sees your faith, even when it feels frail. In His time, He will make your path straight. Let's continue to trust in His goodness and His plan for your life.

We pray that God will bless you, that He will renew your strength, and that He will help you to trust Him fully, even in the waiting. May He fill you with His peace, knowing that He is working everything out for your good. We pray this all in Jesus Name.