What do you do when your spouse is your ...

[anonymous7367]

What do you do when your spouse is your biggest stumbling block? No matter how hard I try, his way or no way whether it is right or wrong. All my hopes and dreams shoved into the abyss. His WANTS take presidence 99% of the time, yet he holds me fully ans solely accountable for all that is or goes wrong. Prayer has not worked. So what do I do. He wants me at home so I can be at his every beck and call. It didn't start this way. My love for him diminishes a little more each day. I know he is not one to openly express himself but he has no problem hugging and telling other females how he feels about them. I would really like for him to tell me that things will be ok even if they're not. Just acknowledge that I am upset and suffering. I am the one who has to handle everything that way if anything goes wrong he has no responsibility for it and that he has said so. Apparently this is the way he has always been after talking to some folks. I am miserable. I don't want another divorce. I want to have a life and what I have now is imprisonment. I feel like God is refusing to grant my settlements because of my husband. I can't leave as I have nowhere to go. I don't want to be homeless again because of a sorry spouse.

Please Pray God will grant my settlements today. They are designed to help many many people and bring glory to God and to provide me with a job that will allow me to be at home yet work on my on time. They will bring great joy to me and the many people that will benefit from them and surely make my husband happier.

Please pray God will burden my husband's heart today that he will put the family's NEEDS before his wants and that he will be more loving and show his love to me and apologize for putting all the burdens on me. Pray he will try to find a second job to help us get out of debt. Pray my husband will encourage me to get a part time job to also help us get out of debt. Pray my husband will realize all the stress he and his children have put on me and apologize for it.

Please pray God bless me in granting my settlements TODAY. I have prayed for this for 10 years.

In Jesus name I make this prayer as the Bible says where2 or 3 are gathered together he will be there and what we shall ask in Jesus name our father in heaven shall do. Lord God, please keep your promises. Amen

 

[Articles]

Lord, we thank you that you for the blessings that you have given us. Help us to honor you in every part of our lives. We place this request at your throne. Please hear and reply according to your perfect will and timing. Grant us the peace to know that you are in control. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[suja]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

I AM PRAYING FOR YOUR SITUATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND TO DRASTICALLY IMPROVE. WHAT DISTURBS ME IS THAT HE WANTS YOU TO STAY AT HOME WHEN YOU OBVIOUSLY NEED MORE MONEY. THAT'S MEGA-POSSESSIVE AND KIND OF NUTS IN MY OPINION. FOR THIS REASON, I PRAY GOD WILL GUIDE YOU TO KNOW HIS WILL. OF COURSE IT IS RIGHT AND GOOD TO TRY TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE. HOWEVER, IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS ABUSIVE. ABUSE TENDS TO ESCALATE. I AM SURE GOD DOES NOT WANT YOU TO BE ABUSED BY ANYONE. I PRAY FOR YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS OF NAZARETH. AMEN AND AMEN.

 

[hacobo25]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[DNLDWCH]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[caldoug]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[anonymous7367]

I AM PRAYING FOR YOUR SITUATION WITH YOUR HUSBAND TO DRASTICALLY IMPROVE. WHAT DISTURBS ME IS THAT HE WANTS YOU TO STAY AT HOME WHEN YOU OBVIOUSLY NEED MORE MONEY. THAT'S MEGA-POSSESSIVE AND KIND OF NUTS IN MY OPINION. FOR THIS REASON, I PRAY GOD WILL GUIDE YOU TO KNOW HIS WILL. OF COURSE IT IS RIGHT AND GOOD TO TRY TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE. HOWEVER, IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS ABUSIVE. ABUSE TENDS TO ESCALATE. I AM SURE GOD DOES NOT WANT YOU TO BE ABUSED BY ANYONE. I PRAY FOR YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS OF NAZARETH. AMEN AND AMEN.[/quote

Lamb:

I am on disability and part of him wanting me home is it took me 2 years to get approved and he doesn't want me to lose it. Guaranteed income. I couldn't live on it on my own. You are allowed to work while on disability which I was doing but you can't earn but so much money. As I said I was working with my disability but had to quit to care for my mother. She has since gone into an Alzheimer facility and this month to a nursing home as she requires total care. But I know what you are saying and I believe you. I feel this way myself. My ex-husbands were worse. One hit me and committed bigamy while we were married. One guy walked out after I got pregnant as we were in the middle of moving and i was jobless due to preterm labor.(we were not married). My 2nd husband was like this one only he expected me to eork, pay al the bills and br June Cleaver(and told me so) and raise all 4 children and then came out and decided he wants to be a woman. I could seriously write a book. But it is too depressing.

 

[patty700]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this. In Jesus' name, Amen.