Weak Man

Anonymous · Aug 14, 2024

Why do I have such a terrible husband? What did I do wrong? If he decides to leave, I hope he does it soon. I hope he moves all at once, and I never want to see him again. I hate him. I regret the day I met him. He is the worst thing that ever happened to me. I hope he gets everything he deserves as soon as possible. I hope that the people who hurt me regret it. I hope I am forgiven for my parts in the mess, and I want to change. I do not know what I am doing wrong. I want to stop thinking about them. I want to get use to being alone. I want to find some place that I can go and afford to live. I need benefits, but I really do not have a reason or purpose to live. I am a waste of space. I wish I never existed. The only humans who ever loved me was my father and twin sister. I want to forget the bad memories. I want to grieve the loss of my dreams. I had a terrible marriage. These have been the worst years of my life. It is all my fault. My life is terrible, but it could be so much worse. This is the sad part. I give up. My husband is a coward and a snake. I never should have listen to my father. I hope my husband lives to regret all the pain he caused. I hope he feels alone since he does not carry about anyone. I wish he could see me in love and happy with a real man. I want to experience a real and romantic relationship once in my life. I hate my husband, but it costs too much to live alone. If he is using me and plans to cause me harm, I hope he suffers immediately. He and his children are selfish. It makes me sick. He is a poor excuse for a man. He needs to see me with a real one, so he can see the difference. If he walks out that door, I will move on as soon as possible. I hate him. I hope he is punished for his mistakes. I hope he finds someone who treats him as badly as he treated me. I hope he feels pain from my hate when he sees my face. I hope my silence and absence burns and stings.

Articles · Aug 14, 2024

Dear beloved, we are truly saddened to hear about your painful situation. We want to lift you up in prayer and remind you of God's love and truth during this difficult time.

Firstly, we must address the hatred and bitterness expressed in your request. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander be put away from you, with all malice" (Ephesians 4:31 WEB). It's important to acknowledge these feelings but also to seek God's help in overcoming them, as they can consume us and cause further harm.

We must also remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). While we understand your pain, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and consider the possibility of reconciliation, if your husband is willing. God can heal and restore marriages, even in the most difficult circumstances. However, this does not mean you should remain in a situation where you are being harmed. Seek wisdom from God and trusted Christian counselors.

Let's pray together:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister who is in deep pain and anguish. Lord, she feels alone, unloved, and full of bitterness. We ask that You comfort her, remind her of Your love, and help her to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Guide her in her marriage, Lord. If it is Your will, restore and heal her relationship with her husband. But if he is causing her harm, Lord, provide a way out and protect her. Help her to trust in You and Your plans for her life.*

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

We encourage you to meditate on these verses: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Remember, God has a plan and a purpose for your life, even in the darkest times.

Lastly, we want to gently remind you that the hope and healing you seek come from Jesus Christ. We didn't see a mention of Him in your request, so we encourage you to turn to Him, as He is our only true source of salvation and comfort (Acts 4:12 WEB).

We are here for you, dear sister. Keep seeking the Lord, and remember that you are never alone, for He is always with you.

hostadmin · Aug 14, 2024

We're so sorry to hear about your struggle, dear friend. We're here for you, praying alongside you. It's understandable to feel overwhelmed with pain and anger, but remember, holding onto bitterness only hurts us more. Let's trust God to help us forgive, even if it's just a little bit each day.

We've been where you are, feeling alone, unloved, and wishing we could just disappear. But God sees you, He loves you, and He's got a plan for you. He doesn't cause pain, but He promises to work all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). Trust that He's got a purpose in this, hard as it may be to see right now.

We're not sure what's best for your situation, but we know that God is. He's the only one who sees the full picture. Let's ask Him for wisdom and guidance, and trust that He'll lead us one step at a time. Maybe it's seeking counseling, maybe it's setting boundaries, maybe it's something else entirely. Let's ask God to show us.

And remember, you're not alone. We're here, and God is always with you. He's not surprised by any of this, and He's not waiting for you to have it all figured out before He'll help. He's right there with you, every step of the way.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, heavy-hearted but hopeful. We lift up our sister to You, Lord. She's hurting, she's angry, she's tired. But she's also brave, she's strong, and she's Yours. Lord, comfort her, remind her of Your love. Give her the strength to forgive, even just a little bit each day. Give her wisdom to know what steps to take next. Guide her, Lord. Show her Your plan, Your purpose. Help her to trust in You, even when it's hard. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Nyfre · Aug 14, 2024

Anonymous said:
Why do I have such a terrible husband? What did I do wrong? If he decides to leave, I hope he does it soon. I hope he moves all at once, and I never want to see him again. I hate him. I regret the day I met him. He is the worst thing that ever happened to me. I hope he gets everything he deserves as soon as possible. I hope that the people who hurt me regret it. I hope I am forgiven for my parts in the mess, and I want to change. I do not know what I am doing wrong. I want to stop thinking about them. I want to get use to being alone. I want to find some place that I can go and afford to live. I need benefits, but I really do not have a reason or purpose to live. I am a waste of space. I wish I never existed. The only humans who ever loved me was my father and twin sister. I want to forget the bad memories. I want to grieve the loss of my dreams. I had a terrible marriage. These have been the worst years of my life. It is all my fault. My life is terrible, but it could be so much worse. This is the sad part. I give up. My husband is a coward and a snake. I never should have listen to my father. I hope my husband lives to regret all the pain he caused. I hope he feels alone since he does not carry about anyone. I wish he could see me in love and happy with a real man. I want to experience a real and romantic relationship once in my life. I hate my husband, but it costs too much to live alone. If he is using me and plans to cause me harm, I hope he suffers immediately. He and his children are selfish. It makes me sick. He is a poor excuse for a man. He needs to see me with a real one, so he can see the difference. If he walks out that door, I will move on as soon as possible. I hate him. I hope he is punished for his mistakes. I hope he finds someone who treats him as badly as he treated me. I hope he feels pain from my hate when he sees my face. I hope my silence and absence burns and stings.

I prayed for you in Jesus mighty name Amen

hostadmin · Aug 20, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.