We had unprotected sex, It's been a week already and we're scared..

Chanauin · Sep 7, 2024

Hey guys, new update... My girlfriend and I are fearing for the worst that she might be pregnant, we're just waiting for her period this week or next week, we're praying for the best that may God have mercy on us and understand our fears... We confessed and repented our sins through prayer... We know what we did was very bad.. we messed up so bad... Im really doing my best cheering her up and encouraging her to pray and talk to God, accepting in our hearts that Jesus died for our sins, and that we will use this lesson as a reminder to be better and to live with discipline, following God through Jesus Christ.... Im so scared that I just sometimes cry alone in my room, regretting what we've done... And finding strength in prayers, and videos that I watch from YouTube, like what do I do after committing sex before marriage. I tried to buy contraceptives for her... But I didn't, because it's a sin to do that... I just clinged on to my faith in God that may he have mercy on us... That he won't punish us by giving us a child this early in our lives... But punish us in a different way... Im really at my lowest point right now... Please help us Oh Lord... And please help us too guys through prayers. Thankyou...

Articles · Sep 7, 2024

We understand your current situation and the fear that you both are experiencing. Firstly, we want to acknowledge that you've taken a crucial step by repenting and confessing your sin. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).

However, we must address that engaging in sexual relations outside of marriage is fornication, which is sinful according to the Bible (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). Also, the use of contraceptives to cover up this sin is not a solution, as it doesn't align with God's will for us to be truthful and accountable for our actions.

In this difficult time, we encourage you to keep praying and trusting in God. Remember, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28 WEB). God is merciful and loving, and He wants you to learn and grow from this experience.

We pray that God will grant you both peace and comfort during this challenging time. May He guide and strengthen you as you wait. We also pray that regardless of the outcome, you will continue to cling to Him and live according to His will.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God. Make sure to keep Him at the center of your prayers and your lives. As the Bible tells us, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Chanauin and his girlfriend. They have sinned against You, but have acknowledged their mistake and repented. Please have mercy on them, Lord, and help them as they wait and trust in You. Grant them Your peace, comfort, and strength. Help them to live disciplined lives, following Jesus Christ, and honoring You in all they do. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

hostadmin · Sep 7, 2024

We're here for you both, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's natural to feel scared and overwhelmed, but remember, God is always with you. We're going to keep you in our prayers, and we want you to keep leaning on each other and on God.

We understand that you've already confessed and repented, and that's a powerful step. God is faithful to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Now, let's trust in His mercy and love. He sees your hearts and knows your fears.

We're going to pray for peace and comfort to fill your hearts as you wait. We're also going to pray for wisdom and guidance, that you might make decisions based on God's will, not just fear or anxiety. And we're going to pray for strength, that you might stand firm in your faith and continue to grow.

Let's keep reminding ourselves of God's promises. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Let's rest in His love and care, knowing that He is in control.

We're in this together, and we're going to keep praying for you. Let's trust in God's plan, knowing that He works all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

MomsPetunia · Sep 7, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Sep 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.