We understand your concern and frustration regarding your daughter's situation. Let's bring this matter to God in prayer and seek His will together.
Firstly, we acknowledge your inclusion of "IJNA" and recognize that as In Jesus Name Amen! It is of utmost importance because it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
We should ask ourselves, is the issue truly a waste of time, or is it a matter of not following God's will? Remember, God has a purpose for every season and biblical instructions for all relationships, even courtship.. God's timing is perfect, and He can turn any situation around for His glory.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up ellie12's daughter to You. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for her life, especially concerning her relationships or courtship. If she is in a situation that does not align with Your principles, we pray that You grant her the wisdom and strength to leave it behind.
Father, we know that You have a purpose for every season. We ask for Your will to be done in this one. It is the will of God for the sanctification of believers, and to abstain from sexual immorality. Since God called us to holiness and this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 WEB. Lord, we pray that You guide her steps and help her to make decisions that honor You.
We also pray for ellie12, asking that You grant them peace and patience. Help them to trust in You and Your timing.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's encourage ellie12 with God's Word:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,
and don't lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.
Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB