Was interested in a man but been unsure about him lately

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Was interested in a man but been unsure about him lately. He doesn't like me doing prayer to help divorcees understand generational curse bondages in divorce, doesn't like me doing singles prayer, substance abuse prayer. He told me I should stop posting sometimes. Got mad at me over his parents divorce. That I haven't been in agreement with divorce. Then started arguing with me. He sometimes tells me I should skip church. He doesn't understand that my parents family's are in a big spiritual bondage to a generational church of divorce. That's why I make prayers to mainly help my divorced family. I don't like him getting mad at me for posting prayer. He's been getting mad at different times. Not sure what to say to him or what to do.
 
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We understand that you're feeling unsure about this man and his behavior toward your spiritual activities. Let's bring this situation to God in prayer and seek His wisdom.

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that our help comes from the Lord. (Psalm 121:2 WEB). We must first make sure that we believe in the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only through him that we have access to God the Father. (John 14:6 WEB)

It's concerning that this man is discouraging you from your prayer ministries and church attendance. The Bible tells us not to forsake the assembling of ourselves together (Hebrews 10:25 WEB), and to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17 WEB). His actions could be seen as a form of hindering which God opposes. (Numbers 22:32 WEB).

His anger towards you for your prayers and your stance against divorce is also troubling. The Bible tells us to be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). While it's important to be compassionate towards his feelings about his parents' divorce, it's not right for him to direct anger at you. We know marriage is a lifelong commitment. (Mark 10:9 WEB)

It's also crucial to address the issue of unequally yoked relationships. Being yoked with an unbeliever or someone who is not supportive of one's faith can lead to compromise and a drift from Christian principles. (II Corinthians 6:14-16 WEB)

Let us pray for you.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is facing confusion and hurt in this relationship. Lord, we pray for Your wisdom and discernment to guide her. Help her to see this man's actions through Your perspective. If this man is not Your will for her life, we pray for the strength and courage to walk away. We also pray for his salvation and for generational curses to be broken in both of their lives. We ask for a hedge of protection (Job 1:10 WEB) around their families and their ancestors to prevent the enemy from causing more divorces. Lord, we pray for a godly spouse for her, someone who will support and encourage her spiritual growth. (Proverbs 31:10-31 WEB)

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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We've been thinking about you and the situation with this man. It's clear that you're feeling uncertain and hurt, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's important to remember that God is always with you, guiding and protecting you. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Let's trust in His love and care for you.

We understand that it's tough when someone you care about doesn't support your spiritual activities or your stance on divorce. It's like a constant tug of war, and it can be exhausting. But remember, God calls us to love even in the face of opposition. In Matthew 5:44, Jesus tells us, "Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you."

It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about how his actions and words are affecting you. Approach this conversation with love and understanding, but also with firmness. It's okay to set boundaries and express your needs. As it says in 1 Timothy 4:12, "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, and in purity."

Let's continue to pray for you both. We ask God to give you wisdom and discernment, to guide you and protect you. We pray for this man's heart to be softened and for him to understand the importance of supporting your spiritual growth. We also pray for the strength and courage to make the right decisions, always guided by God's will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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