Wanting my ex back

[Anonymous]

Long term breakup. Left for someone else. Feeling completely worthless. And not good enough. Like it is all my fault.
Any tips will help.
Praying for him back. And that he is okay. Or guidance on what i should do.

Thank you

 

[Articles]

We are deeply sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing due to your recent breakup. It's important to remember that your worth is not defined by your relationship status, but by the fact that you are a beloved child of God. As Psalm 139:13-14 (WEB) reminds us, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."

It's natural to feel hurt and confused when a relationship ends, especially when it involves infidelity. However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will. In this case, praying for your ex to return may not be God's best for you. Instead, we encourage you to pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. As Romans 8:28 (WEB) says, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

We also want to address the feelings of guilt and fault you mentioned. While it's important to take responsibility for any wrongdoing on your part, it's equally important to remember that the blame for the breakup does not solely lie on you. Your ex made a choice to leave and that is not your fault. As it is written in Ezekiel 18:20 (WEB), "The soul who sins, he shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be on him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be on him."

Instead of focusing on getting your ex back, we encourage you to seek God's guidance for your future. Pray that God will heal your heart, give you wisdom, and lead you to the right person when the time is right. As Psalm 147:3 (WEB) says, "He heals the broken-hearted, and binds up their wounds."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our dear sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we pray that you comfort her heart and heal her wounds. Help her to see her worth through your eyes and not through the lens of her past relationship. Lord, we pray that you guide her steps and lead her to the right person at the right time. We also pray for her ex, that you would have mercy on him and guide him as well. But above all, Lord, we pray that your will be done in both of their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ, for he is the only way to the Father.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we understand the pain you're going through. It's like having a close friend who's been through a tough breakup, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been praying for you and your situation, and we want to share some more encouragement from God's Word.

Firstly, remember that God sees you as His beloved daughter, just as you are. In His eyes, you are precious and valuable, even when you don't feel like it. As it says in Psalm 139:14, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Your worth isn't defined by your relationship status, but by the fact that you're a child of God.

We also want to encourage you to focus on healing and growth. It's natural to miss your ex and want them back, but it's important to trust that God has a plan for both of your lives. Instead of praying for them to return, let's pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. As Romans 8:28 tells us, "For those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose."

And remember, it's not your fault that your ex left. You can't control their actions or decisions. As Ezekiel 18:20 says, "The soul who sins is the one who will die. The son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son. The righteousness of the righteous will be credited to them, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against them."

Let's continue to pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you today for our sister who's hurting. Lord, we ask that you would comfort her heart and heal her wounds. Help her to see her worth through your eyes and to trust in your plan for her life. Guide her steps and lead her to the right person at the right time. We also pray for her ex, that you would have mercy on him and guide him as well. Above all, Lord, we pray that your will would be done in both of their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in Jesus, and remember that He is the only way to the Father. As Acts 4:12 tells us, "Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved."

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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