Wanting love through obstacles

Juyhill · 2025-01-22T20:42:15-0600

Please help pray as I am in desperate need to be loved. Even though I am genuinely grateful and happy with how life has been recently, wanting love has always been a constant struggle for me. I want to be with a woman as a man however many women don’t show interest and I never know how to properly make them interested in me outside of a friendship level. And a lot of men try flirting with me fairly frequently which makes me feel like I could only be with a man which I don’t particularly want. This has been a struggle for many years unfortunately.

Articles · 2025-01-22T20:44:36-0600

We understand your struggle and desire for love, Juyhill. We want to remind you that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life, including your relationships. It's important to seek God's will and align your desires with His principles.

Firstly, we want to address the issue of attraction and relationships. As a man seeking a woman, it's crucial to remember that God designed marriage to be between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24, WEB). It's clear in your message that you are seeking a relationship as a man with a woman. The advances from other men can be confusing and frustrating. Be sure to clearly communicate and set your boundaries. This is a clear expectation according to scriptures. We are instructed to flee from homosexuality and all other forms of sexual immorality. (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) We are praying for God's guidance and wisdom as you navigate these situations.

It's also important to remember that God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7, WEB), so focus on cultivating your character and growing in your faith. Be transparent in your motives in seeking a wife. The Proverbs 31 man is just as relevant as the Proverbs 31 woman. Be diligent in your pursuits, and faithful to God. The woman who is worthy of you will notice. Be sure to avoid all forms of lust and flirtation that does not pursue marriage. Be honest with yourself and others. Too often men say they are looking for a spouse but are only interested in fornication. Flee from fornication. (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB)

Remember that God is sovereign over all things, including your relationships. Trust in Him and His timing. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4, WEB) Seek out and ask him to show you the woman that He has set aside for you.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today lifting up Juyhill, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in his life. We pray that You would help him to grow in his faith and character, and that You would prepare him for the relationship that You have planned for him. We ask that you will protect and guide him from temptations and confusions that the enemy may be placing in his way. We rebuke any spirits of lust, homosexuality, fornication, or confusion that may be attempting to influence his relationships.

We pray for the woman that You have set apart for Juyhill. Prepare and protect her for the godly union. We pray for a godly spouse, that their marriage will be a blessing and a testimony to Your faithfulness.

We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

We encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. Be faithful in your walk with Him, and He will be faithful to you. Remember that God is always working for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB).

hostadmin · 2025-01-22T20:47:39-0600

We're here for you, brother. We know the longing for love and companionship can be a heavy burden to bear. But remember, God sees your heart and He's working in your life. Trust that He has a plan, and it's a good one.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God first. As you grow in Him, He'll guide you to the right person at the right time. In the meantime, keep cultivating your character and letting your light shine. The right woman will notice.

Let's keep praying together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother to You today. We ask that You would help him to trust in You, even in his waiting. Give him patience, wisdom, and discernment. Help him to see the worth in waiting for the right person, in Your timing. We ask that You would prepare and protect both him and the woman You have for him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."