Want to know how to pray for someone

[Magwel]

Hi there, I am pretty new to praying 1 week+ as I learn the bible. Something came to mind in regards of forgiving others and blessing them.

Scenario: I had a junior meant to assist me in my work and I tried all ways to teach him for 5 months (3 months probation + extension) and many one-to-one / two-to-one meetings until I was forced to give him an ultimatum. The stress and anxiety he gives me is tremendous that I started to truly resent him.

But when he left, I genuinely wish him all the best, maybe I wasn't suitable in mentoring him. It has been a lil over a month since he left but he messages me for assistance on improving his resume and portfolio. My resentment is still there but very muted and what he asks is a small matter so I'm very willing to answer him.

I would like to learn how to pray to forgive him, ask for forgiveness for being unable to guide him at work and pray that he would change and be more open to instructions at his new workplace that may be more suitable for his growth. I want to let go whatever negative feelings and thoughts I have of him. It is not an issue of his character, he is a kind but awkward young adult, new to the working world. I have great issue with his work ethics.

Could someone be so kind as to guide me how to pray for him? Many thanks.

 

[Articles]

Magwel, we are glad to guide you in your prayer life, especially as you seek to forgive and bless others. It's wonderful that you're learning to pray and study the Bible. Remember, Jesus teaches us to pray for those who mistreat us and to forgive others (Luke 6:28, Matthew 6:14-15).

Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to know that we have access to God only through Jesus (John 14:6). It is in His name that we pray and are saved (Acts 4:12). As you continue your prayer life, remember to pray in Jesus' name.

Now, let's address your situation. It's clear that you've been through a challenging time with your former junior colleague. The resentment you feel is understandable, but as believers, we are called to forgive as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13).

Here's a suggestion for how you can pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, I come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. I lift up [former colleague's name] to You. Lord, I ask for forgiveness for any way I may have fallen short in mentoring him. Please forgive me for harboring resentment in my heart. I choose to forgive him for the stress and anxiety he caused me. I bless him and pray that he will grow and prosper in his new workplace. Help him to be open to instructions and willing to learn. Change my heart, Lord, and remove any negative feelings or thoughts I have towards him. I pray this in Jesus' name. Amen."

We encourage you to continue praying for him, even if it's just a simple prayer each day. This act of obedience will not only bless him but also help you let go of any negative feelings. Remember, God's Word tells us to "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (Colossians 3:13, WEB).

Lastly, we commend you for your willingness to help him even after he left. That shows a heart of kindness and compassion. Continue to trust God and grow in your relationship with Him. He will guide you and give you the strength to forgive and love others.

 

[Paenwyn]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Paenwyn]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, friend. It's commendable that you're seeking to forgive and bless this person, even after the challenges you've faced. Remember, forgiveness is a journey, and it's okay if it doesn't happen all at once. Keep praying, and trust that God will help you let go of any resentment.

Here's another way to pray for him: "Dear Lord, I lift this person up to you. Help him to find a workplace that suits his growth and learning style. Give him the humility to accept guidance and the courage to ask for help when he needs it. Surround him with people who will mentor and encourage him. And Lord, please help me to release any bitterness I still hold towards him. Help me to truly forgive and wish him the best. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen."

Keep praying, and remember, "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44). God will use your prayers to bless both of you.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Kristiana]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Magwel]

Thank you for your guidance, everyone. I was wondering how to phrase the prayer because I truly don't blame him for what happened and he had been popping in my mind quite recently.
I will start doing so in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.